Mind games

Basically, is it normal that i play a lot of mind games with my boyfriend? like I'm constantly messing with his head, just not asking direct questions and trying to trick him out, we fight about it all the time, I say I'm gonna change but I'm back doing it again, do all girls do this ?? see boys are so straight forward whereas girls are more complicated, well thats what i think. i think I'm driving him away from me. We're together over a year and i love him so so much, we see each other every single day and now i think I'm driving him away.. help i don't know what to do

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  • Idontpulloutmycouchdoes

    Heres a thought, stop doing it.

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  • daisy

    ur just a minipulative person thats why u do this!! it's just nasty u deserve to be alone!!!

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  • captaincheerio

    While alot of girls do this, and this could be considered 'normal', you seem to be disregarding your boyfriend's feelings. Generally speaking, men have a much simpler way that their mind works, and by using your probably much more complicated 'woman mindframe' on him, you're confusing him. If you think you're driving him away, that's because you probably are. It's not his responsibility for you to treat him with respect.

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  • holio

    You're probably just testing him to see what he's made of or if he'll lay the smack down. Either he'll put you in your place and you'll be satisfied and the two of you will grow closer, or he'll back down and you'll lose your attraction for him.

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    • emmajohn09

      yeah thats what i was thinking ... im just testing him to see if he really cares. 14 months and were still together, so hopefully it isnt effecting us that much

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