Met 3 weeks ago and already living together!

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ok so I want to know if I'm not the only crazy one who thinks this is just way bizzare. Ok my sons father met this girl literally 3 weeks ago. Already she has moved into his house. She has a daughter that has been with her father for the past 5 days while she's been with my sons dad. I'm having a baby with my boyfriend of 2 years and even WE are not moving in together. My main concern is my son. I know my boyfriend but dont feel its a good choice right now because although we are having a child im not 100% sure if it is going to work out. Not to mention relationships change when there is a new born and I just dont want my son to be exposed to arguments and drama. For the past 2 years my sons dad has asked me to respect him and not have my son be there if my boyfriend spent the night. Which I never did. 2 years is a long time to be with someone but I feel when there is kids involved taking it slow is the best thing to do. My son is 6 and he knows whats up. So when his dad tell me he is going to move this girl in AND HER daughter I flipped out! Like who does that? I think he is totally not thinking about his son, just himself and his happiness. The same for her. He ex boyfriend already went over to there house and caused drama. Cops got called the whole 9, my son does not need to be exposed to that nonsense. I haven't been letting my son see his dad because of those reasons. Is that wrong? Im not comfortable with her living there and staying over when my son is there. Maybe if they were going out a year and my son kinda knew her but he just got introduced to her yesterday!!!! Is it normal to introduce your kids to a person you met 3 weeks ago? Is it normal to move in with them that fast. Forgive me if I sound negative but I just dont think that this relationship for my sons dad is going to last. So my son shouldnt be thrown into the mix. Is all this normal or crazy???

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    ^ agree..except for the abortion bit.

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  • Lucyg123
    12 years ago

    Your right it a big deal when children see that
    Maybe a compromise can be made like he can come see him alone each saterday at your house where you'll be in a sperate room .

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  • jakeomaniac
    12 years ago

    It's his life, not yours. Just like you wouldn't want him freaking out on you to hurry up and marry your boyfriend, let him live his life however he wants to. If he gets burned in the end, it's his fault, not yours. He's obviously a 'live hard, go out in a blaze of glory' type of guy. Let him go out in a 'blaze' of glory >=D.

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  • pgirl03
    13 years ago

    love has no limit what does THAT mean???

    Obviously i didn't see what an idiot my boyfriend was until it was to late! I was on birth control, but also on other medication cuz i was a mess. lost my mom in feb. no excuse, but im going to deal with my "mistake" as some would put it, although it is not. I have had an abortion before and couldnt do that again. im a strong hardworking women and will give & do my best for my children regardless of there fathers. its sucks but it is what it is.. Now that the girlfriend is living in his house he never tries to see my son. excuse my choice of words but he has chosen pussy over his kid. i do love him and care. this girl is using him. no job, no car, she had to use my car seat for her daughter!

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  • garina0719
    13 years ago

    love has no limit:D

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  • ms_babygirl23
    13 years ago

    Sounds like you still have feelings for your ex. Let him do whatever he wants with his life. As long as your son isn't being harmed then there nothing really you can do about it anyways..just try to be civil for the sake of your son! -and I agree...why are you having a baby with someone you don't think the relationship will last? Smh...birth control people!!!

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  • anya07
    13 years ago

    Its his life and he can do whatever he wants.What refers to your son I agree talk to him and say that you dont want to get into his personal life but as he said he should respect your son.Also dont say negative things about him next to your son.Try not to involve him in such things.He is his dad let him love and respect him or else it will ruin his inner world

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    why the hell are you having a child with someone you dont even think will work out?!? please have an abortion before its too late!!

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