Men: whats more important, looks or sense of humor
| Sense of humor | 184 | |
| Looks | 114 |
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| Sense of humor | 184 | |
| Looks | 114 |
For what? One night stand or long-term relationship? Sense of humour is more important in the long-term, but initial attraction will always rely on looks.
It really depends. When you are young and still having sex often looks definitely win out. After you are married a while and start to age a sense of humor is more important because looks will fade.
I'd say under 40 looks win hands down. Over 40 sense of humor.
wigsplitz i got annoyed with some of your stupid comments so i went on your page and found that they all are. I hope you rnot such a opinionated bitch in person, because those peoples only friends are other annoying overly opinionated people, in future have a real hard think about what your about to post or say and think, do people really give a fuck what i say, because generally when its unintelligible shit coming out of your mouth, then no people don't give a fuck
I didn't vote but as I'm in my 40s I'm hoping sense of humour ;o)
After you're married a while you don't even know what they look like. I'll say, you see the person 'inside'.
In reality, I couldn't even tell you if my husband has a moustache / beard but sometimes he grows one in the winter when it's cold ;o) I'm so observant - eek!!
They are both important, but if she is boring, heartless and has no sense of humor... no matter how attractive she is, I'll end up not wanting anything to do with her. A great sense of humor and good heart though will make almost any girl look prettier to me.
As long as youre not ugly, sense of humor. I would rather have a very funny and kind of attractive girl than a very atractive and kind of funny girl.
Sense of humor. I'd rather date an ugly guy who's funny rather than a hunk whos boring.
I would say looks because I DID think they mattered a bit more (although I still think they matter more than the bulk of the personality) but there's this girl who I had wanted to go out with for ages but she is trying too hard to be a good human being and she gets offended at any joke that's even the slightest bit dark and it pisses me off.
I am pretty confident about my sense of humor (only that, really) and I can say, it gets you somewhere but not to a girl's bed. Or to a serious relationship. They think you're different and very interesting but the social pressure will get to them the first time you screw up.
If she likes you for your personality, you don't get to screw up. Even a single mistake is a turn-off. and people feel they're being generous, if they're with you. And if you manage to be perfect, the relationship will get dull. Since when you have no problems you'll run out of things to talk about. You'll lose her anyway.
So it's a Lose-Lose situation and that's pretty fucked up to be honest.
I knew this ugly chick...yes even she knew and admitted she was challenged in the looks department. In fact so did her mother. So her mother told her that since you are not the best looking girl around you had better learn how to be sociable and dance real good so that guys will like you at parties. Sure enough this chick can dance her ass off and knows everyone.
Moral of the story, if you don't have good looks at least have a sense of humor so you can laugh at yourself.
you should have to laugh at yourself for not being good looking, nor should you try to be someone else to get people like you, because eventually that catches up with you emotionally
- moral of the story be yourself and you will have much more incommon with the people that like you
Sense of humour for sure. Girls tend to be cuter if they have a sense of humour
One can make up for the lack of the other, but both are important in attraction. You might as well ask "personality or looks?"