Men: what would you think of a woman who approaches you?

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I must apologise if my poll options are a bit shitty.
Basically, I've spotted this man around. I think he's gorgeous. I would love to get to know him more. We are going to be around each other a lot in a couple of weeks time since we go the same places etc.
So do you think I should introduce myself, have a little chat and take it from there?
Or do you think I should just leave it, wait and see if he spots me, likes the look of me and introduces himself to me?
Girls please comment too! Just try to resist the urge to be naughty and not vote.

Confident, I may be interested 86
Creeped out 7
Over confident, would not be interested 6
Men should be the ones to approach women 6
Makes no difference, I may be interested 41
Other (please comment) 8
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  • nobodyspecial
    11 years ago | pl

    Go for it, he might like you too but just too shy to approach you. I certainly don't mind a girl approaching me. Makes me feel good when they do.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    Be confident and approach him. be sweet and a little bubbly. ask him questions but don't talk too much.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Go for it. You never know until you try.

    ...just don't apply that principle to heroin or car accidents or cancer or anything stupid like that.

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    I think it's an amazing compliment, since most women are too shy to approach a guy.

    I don't think there's any guy out there who doesn't want women to approach him.

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  • ryan554
    11 years ago

    makes me horny shes domanit.

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  • ericthered
    11 years ago

    The only risk you are taking Is the chance he may shut you down or reject you. And it is exactly what men have to go through. That's why I rarely approach anyone. It can be very awkward even if they want to talk. What do you say then lol
    But have no problem with a woman approaching me. Give it a shot.

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    I hate to say it, I'd be smelling an ulterior motive like robbery, c*cktease, long-term set up for a public put-down, etc.

    In all the times I've been approached that's all they were, except for once, and then she turned out to be looney tunes and it would have been better if I'd never met her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Only because it's happened to you doesn't mean that I am a sinister person too. I didn't even go through with it in the end anyway since I found out he has a girlfriend.

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      • Francophile22
        11 years ago

        OK it happened that way EVERY time throughout my life, so I have to assume it will ALWAYS happen that way.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I think they want to say hi lol.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    As long as they were'nt fat or ugly,I would'nt mind.

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  • Allranger
    11 years ago

    dont be over confedient, dont shake his hand, place your hand in his when he does reach for a shake

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  • Paris-Tokyo
    11 years ago

    I JUST MADE A POST ABOUT THIS A WHILE AGO! YOU ARE MY DREAM GIRL!

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  • thoughtfulopt29
    11 years ago

    This is mans ultimate dream!!.

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  • FrancoisDillinger
    11 years ago

    I'm shy, so I appreciate women coming up to me for a change.

    It's a great ego boost as well.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Sighned, Sir Francois Dillinger.

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  • disthing
    11 years ago

    Whenever I have been approached first by a girl, it's always a welcome surprise, whether or not I find them attractive. It happens so seldom that us men will usually take it as a compliment. It's also very nice to not feel like you are the one seeking to impress or 'pull', and that the shoe is on the other foot so to speak. You're the 'prize' that she is trying to 'win' - it's a nice feeling.

    I think we've warped the traditional gender roles to such a degree that clinging to the notion that men should always approach first is old-fashioned and regressive. I understand why girls resist this idea; I think if it was tradition for females to approach males, us guys wouldn't be too keen on things changing. But come on now, equality requires compromise.

    Also, sometimes guys lack the confidence to approach girls they like (I know I do). So if you're waiting around for him to make the first move, you could easily be waiting around forever. If you have the guts to go for it, go for it :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Speaking as a guy I would really be flattered and refreshed by something like this. Even if I wasnt interested in the woman that approached me.

    Hot women almost never do this though, its just not necessary for them to do it.

    If a hot woman approached me I would almost immediately think its as a joke or to have some fun at my expense.

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  • Subfinmatic
    11 years ago

    I'd be like holy fuck a female approaching me, wow. I don't have a lot of confidence.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You should do it. I had a discussion with a few people in college about this before, and the all of the men (except one) said that they woul like it if a girl approchaed them instead of them always having to approach women.

    You should try it.

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  • amaterasu123000
    11 years ago

    to tell the truth im a shy guy and my best relationships have been with women who approached me first

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    • Francophile22
      11 years ago

      Hmmm, consider me weird but I have never had a woman approach me (except in a bad way, like saying she wanted to F me in the bathroom while my gf waited outside)

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  • erica1925
    11 years ago

    I think you should just wait and see if he glances at you,smile,stares at you ,little signs like that that mean he's interested in you. It has happened to me,after i figured he kinda liked me,that's when I started aproaching him. :)

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    Makes no difference. If I liked her I would give it a shot.

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  • lufa
    11 years ago

    I've found women are always better at picking me up than the other way around. As long as the girl is cute, then I'm definitely interested. She doesn't have to be super-hot, just pretty enough that I'd want to date her.

    One time I got hit on by some girls in a car while waiting at a stop light, but they were unattractive and thought I'd actually be interested. I couldn't drive away fast enough. Seriously don't people know what they look like and realize when they're not attractive?

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