Men never hit on me

Men never hit on me and I am starting to feel unattractive as a young 22 year old girl. I never that I was ugly but I rarely receive any male attention so my self-esteem has been plummeting. It doesn't help that I am 22, never asked out or had a bf before. I feel so sad like I am always going to be lonely. )):

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  • Murun

    You have to initiate. Modern young men have been brought up to feel like a rapist if they make a move on a woman that's not interested, so they often don't take any risks.

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    • Kevinevan

      Murun talk truth in this post.

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  • barstool

    I had no idea, but apparently girls are allowed to start conversations with guys these days, it's true. You can even ask guys out! It's practically a free-for-all. So get in while the goings good. Good luck tiger!

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  • Well, it's what happens when so many people complain about how bad it is that men just hit on women they don't know. Now not as many do.

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    • BlackCatsAreAwesome

      Beat me to it. There is a place in the UK (Nottinghamshire) where flirting with women has become illegal. If they 'feel' (SJWs and their feefees lol) weirded out because the man looks 'creepy' (catch-all word for ugly) they can sue the man for harassment.

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      • That's fucking insane!

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  • kupokupo

    Hey good lookin', did it hurt when you fell?

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    • EccentricWeird

      From a substantial height, thus disfiguring your face permanently?

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      • kupokupo

        ... From heaven

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  • Kevinevan

    Well I am a 43 year old male. I've never been asked out in my life. I haven't been in a relationship since 2008 and i doubt I will ever have sex again.

    Sucks don't it.

    Oh wait, you're a woman. You can go out virtually anytime you want simply by flirting have sex with practically any guy whenver you want.

    Guess it just sucks to be me.

    Do youself a favor and watch what your friends do to pick up guys and do the same thing. Easy peasy.

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  • Maybe your not initiating interaction or getting out enough.

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    • EccentricWeird

      nah she ugg

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    • Zorak

      Bingo Bango.

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      • CozmoWank

        Bongo.

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        • EccentricWeird

          Do you want to leave the Congo?
          y/n

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  • CANINELOVE

    Send me a pic I'll be honest with you.

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    • EccentricWeird

      SNED PIX!!11

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  • Skittles23

    Nobody is beyond the help of a good stylist. Get yourself to a salon and seek the advice of a hair stylist. Ask for other style tips as well. When you look great you will feel better, and attract positive feedback. Best wishes!

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  • KiwiWisdom

    I'd say this is normal. . .but if your self esteem hass plummeted because you're not receiving male attention, you're just basing self worth on someone else. That's not normal. Feeling lonely and wanting to get hit on is totally fine. No sense in tearing yourself down though because you want something you're not getting. Try to get comfortable with yourself again first, then go find someone worth hitting on. Maybe they'll be worth it too that way, instead of feeding the doubt.

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  • Incocknito420

    Your a women and all women are beautiful in their own unique way,just stay patient,it'll happen when its meant to,Dont look for love,let love find you then you won't make a mistake and it'll be the purest love ever

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  • Stcm54

    I've always been scared to sk girls out. I am 6'4 220 and attractive it's just the anxiety of being shot down or rejected

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  • alienslayer

    Your circumstances need to be embraced, have fun, all men are just heartbreakers so you wouldn't want one anyways

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  • GenderConfused

    You may not be attractive to all men and since i dont know what you look like i cant really say. But i find it hard to believe that nobody is interested in you. Keep your eyes open and you may find some quiet guy checking you out.
    Or you may just try asking a guy out.

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  • Curiouslass

    Maybe others did, you just didnt realize it cause maybe you got high standards or what. 😁

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  • CANINELOVE

    I would need to see a photo.

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    • EccentricWeird

      SNED PIX PZL!!111

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  • DuchessK

    same struggle.

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    • EccentricWeird

      Are you the same duchess as before?

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      • DuchessK

        Yes

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