Men liking young girls

is it normal for a grown man to be attracted to a 15 or 16 yr old , i know some men like young girls but what about that young or is he considered a "pervert'

long story short i dated an older man when i was 15 , we both lied about our age but after he found out he didnt stop talking to me, he was old enough to be my dad but i loved him and he was in love with me too...we talked on the phone and text for a year and never met we talked about sex too but that was not all we talked about he always said he never want to hurt me and how much he didnt want to lose me.i would talk to other people and they think that he brain washed me, i dont know what to believe was it love or lust my parents ended up finding out from a note i wrote and wanted him in prison i told him they found out he said i make dumb choices and told me goodluck everytime i said you never loved me seemed like he would change the subject

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  • You two never met in person? If it was mostly all online and through texting then I would say that all of this was based in mostly fantasy. I don't understand why some "older" guys go for 15 and 16 year old girls. It is just plain taking advantage of their youth and innocence. It would be kind of hard for me to imagine trying to be with a girl who was even 18 as I feel that would still be too young for me as we would both be at very different stages of our lives. I would feel like a desperate pervert.

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    • preciiousv

      because he was attracted to my looks at first I guess he didn't think it would last that long , he said he never really had someone to talk to I was his bestfriend

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    • RoseIsabella

      You're all kinds of awesome!

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  • RoseIsabella

    If you were my daughter I'd say the story had a happy ending.

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  • Obblop

    A few years back I was 30 and she was 16. I was driving long-haul semi-truck and stopped for the night in a large city. We met in the cafe and spent a lot of time visiting. She was mentally mature and had the appearance of a grown woman. A few hours into our what became a date she told me her age. I was shocked!!! She was more mature than many gals close to my age.

    But, the age difference was just too great o out of respect to her I did not pursue the obvious intense mutual attraction.

    I suppose that in certain circumstance the age difference can be overcome but it is likely very rare.

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    • daydreamer394

      What's age got to do with it?

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  • GreatArt

    Its quite the norm these days. Although men as old as your father - now that's sick. A guy can get attracted to any girl if she has womanly features. We just choose, and rightly so, not to act on it.

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  • handsignals

    Sad story.

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    • regisphilbin

      +1

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    • Jayy

      Yours was better, tho.

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  • Mister_Nobody

    Normal. Many girls reach the peak of their fertility around the age of 15-16. Rules and social conventions that make having a baby at that age seem wrong are just going against nature.

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  • (s)aint

    I'm 22, the youngest I've been with sexually this past year has been around 17 and 17-nearly 18. ( Legal age of consent is 15 here)

    I do have to add that I'd never, ever date someone that young- But sex is just sex and I truly don't care much about age as long as he/she looks attractive, which is mostly around 16-30, sometimes older but it's rare.

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    • You like rob the cradle. Hahaha.

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      • (s)aint

        Hahahahahaha. I just don't care about people's age when I meet them at parties 0.o If they are legal, I'm game.

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  • sexysonofsam

    I say age makes no difference in a relationship, however for any mature male to make advances on a teenager is definitely wrong!

    Girls are easily manipulated by older men and that is the reason why there are laws protecting girls from men like this!

    If he knew your age and carried on with texting you, he is indeed a pervert!

    be very lucky that things did not go further than that, it could have fucked you up for life!

    I hope you learned a valuable lesson from this and that you would be more vigilant in the future!

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  • BIgEB

    ...It's somewhat normal for older men to like younger women...but for the gal...it could be a sexual trap...fortunately it didn't happen for this girl...he seemed like a proper man...understanding that something like this age gap...could mean trouble for either of them (he could have been accused and perhaps convicted of statutory rape if they had been together, even if nothing had happened)...I'm 53 and a guy...I've NEVER dated any girl that has been outside of 8 years either older or younger than I am...it usually (though certainly not always...I knew of a couple whose ages were 20 years apart (he being older than she...they were old enough to have a legal relationship, however...when they first met...he was in his 60's...she in her 40's...he recently died at age 91)...has issues due to maturity levels being very different...

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  • Tarkio

    A 16 year old is not mentally mature! A 22 year old is not mentally mature! They try to act mature because of societal pressure.

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  • You obviously feel you've got it all figured out and you're not interested in taking accountability. ...not sure why you made a post asking for opinions then, but whatever.

    So, fuck it! you don't get my help.

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