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| Yes. For a hook up it is about the release of sex and lust. | 260 | |
| Yes. I just think about someone else. | 21 | |
| Yes. I just concentrate on their body, like a porn movie. | 73 | |
| No. I have to connect with them , even if it's short term friendship. | 85 | |
| No. I have to feel comfortable with them. | 107 | |
| No. I have to feel love for them. | 97 |
I could if I wanted to, but I never want to. I only sleep with people I've begun to have feelings for.
Of course one can have sex without emotional attachment.
The fundamental purpose of sex is to reproduce.
I highly doubt that dogs in the street are fucking because they have a burning passion for oneanother. They are relieveing a purpose.
One night stands are exactly that. You either need a release or you simply want to fuck.
Shagging a stranger and the love of your life are entirely different experiences.
Sometimes I wish I can be a "normal" guy who would bang everyone and anyone with a skirt at will, but unfortunately, I'm not that kind of guy.
I really need to feel comfortable and close to the person before I can do it, but this is probably why I'm still a virgin...
When having sex, I can think of whoever I want. The actual person is just a cum depository.
It sound shallow but I see sex as a simple means of satiating my sexual impulses but many this will change with time
I couldn't without having some feeling. I just couldn't do it, it's not me.
I was actually surprised by how difficult it was for me to have an affair without falling. Good thing she went away...could've become a much worse disaster than it already was.
It actually depends on the woman. If she's into it just for the sex,then so are we. If she wants to go out on a date and dinner, that's fine too. While having sex is a top priority for most men,the ball is in the womans court as to when we'll get down to having sex. But to answer your question. yes, we can very easily have sex with women without any feelings,emotions or attachments.
Ooh too hasty to poke my nose in there I didn't know th@ question was for men, but my previous opinion still stands. xx
Most of my encounters have been one night stands so yeah I don't really think sex has to equal love. If it turns to something else than that's all well and good but the world will still turn if it doesn't xxx
I tried a hook up to just have sex twice. Both ended up with me going soft consistantly. I just couldn't 'feel' anything for them. I found that if I get to know them even for alittle while i'm able to preform much better so a date is a must. or at least get to know them a little first. dunno why this is
sex is so much better with some1 you have a real connection with,but things happen,like drinking too much alcohol
I am physically capable, but I only ever want to do it with people I know. I kind of value my time.
I think... I'm too good to just give it to any desperate girl. I at least want to know she deserves whatever pleasure she gets :D
But hey, if alcohol is a factor, my pride and value diminishes significantly :/
I have to feel something for them to actually feel something down there.
Weird question because I never thought about it this way before. With a woman I have to have some kind of relationship with her to feel comfortable about having sex, but with a guy I prefer anonymous sex with a stranger, like a gloryhole in adult book store. Although there aren't many of them around anymore so I don't get much of that.
You've got a lot of guys here who are just Sex mad. guys save yourselves for someone special!
So you can have sex without feelings but Is sex better when you have feelings? Or just more complicated. And does this depend on your age?
Teenagers- no feelings necessary
20's- some feelings can be good
30's- feelings make sex better