Men and women...opinions on flirting

It's ok if someone starts flirting with you but not the other way around. If you love each other then watching your lover flirt with someone else can be crushing. I know everyone likes a compliment but when it starts to hurt the person you love you should put an end to it and let the flirter know that you're not interested and let your lover know that you wouldn't hurt them just to get your self esteem up

When you're in a relationship you should discuss what's off limit and what's not IMO.

I must have a different definition of flirting then most people. I think it is just a part of some people's communication. Sure, there is still a line that you make and then don't cross out of love and respect for your partner, but I see a lot of typical flirting in male/female interactions and I think it is normal.

I treat people how I wish to be treated. Watching my ex flirt with his now-girlfriend while we were still in a relationship was pretty crap, therefore I wouldn't do it myself.

flirting is part of social life and comunication... all men and women flirt constantly, ~ most just hide it better while in a relationship

Heavy flirting is a big no-no. Having a bit of fun with somebody is not.

I think the big diference is that, normaly, on flirting the guys are the ones that start it, and girls just let it happen. So I find it more anoying when, in a relationship, the guy is flirting.
But I would find as much anoying if the girl did as a guy and started it, or even more anoying.

I voted "I am a woman, and flirting is okay; as long as it is not acted upon".
I personaly am not a big fan. But it's nice to hear some compliments sometimes.

Sorry for my english.

NO FLIRTING WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP. cuz why would you WANT to flirt if you're happy with the person you're with?

i think its a waste of time to flirt.

I'm a natural flirt, and I kind of flirt with everyone not related and attractive to me. Girl or guy, however it is only harmless and I do it without realizing it, somwtimes I don't care. I wouldn't care, if you act on it, be honest, lie and you will be single. Just dont touch me if you had sex, shower first.

If a man is flirting with another girl while he's in a relationship he either obviously isn't into her or is immature. If I knew my guy was flirting with another chick I'd break if off right there. Why waste both of our time?

flirting is awesome... but can lead to danger :P i guess thats the appeal :P

i don't care go suck fuck... i do the same...
that's what i tell em! maybe that is the reason i don't have long relationships

I don't know. I think if it's serious flirting, you should totally break up with them. But if they just think their attractive and check them out or start a conversation it's fine by me.