Men - is it normal to lose interest in a girl after sleeping with her?

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Recently, I had been texting with a guy I met on a night out for about three months - long, deep, meaningful conversations about pretty much everything. He seemed crazy into me and we got on great - we met up, ended up sleeping together - since then, we're still texting (although not as much as before - he initiated the texting though) but we haven't met up and he hasn't mentioned anything about meeting again. It's been almost a month now. I don't get it - why he is keeping in touch with me, and why he doesn't seem bothered about seeing/sleeping with me again. This kind of thing seems pretty common.

Is it normal for guys to lose interest after sex and why does it happen? Thanks

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago | pl

    He hit it and slowly quit it. Take the hint.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      yeah i get that, i'm not stupid! my question is more like, why do men hit and run? I made it pretty clear I'm not after a relationship and I just want casual sex, but more like a non-exclusive fuck buddy thing then a one night stand. I am genuinely curious why guys seem more into the one night thing than the fuck buddy thing, any thoughts?

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    • shuggy-chan
      9 years ago

      Break the wrist and walk away, break the wrist and walk away

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      • Darkoil
        9 years ago

        Break the wrist and slowly walk away :)

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  • nine11
    9 years ago

    He just wanted to fuck you so he did . Now he will keep in touch with you so that if and when he can't get another , he can screw you again

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  • Trent_from_punchy
    9 years ago

    The birds love me! They're all like

    TRENT, give me back me purse!!!

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  • charcoalwish
    9 years ago

    Try and use this as a lesson to you, men are usually after one thing.

    thats why now i'm so fucked up I let them use me for it.
    lol.

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  • Tommythecat.
    9 years ago

    Do you really need to ask this question?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I don't think I phrased my question very well, see my reply to darkoil please, would be interested to know your thoughts :)

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      Meow meow meows! You're back, kitty...YAY!!!

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      • Tommythecat.
        9 years ago

        Yeah kinda, I've got no internets where I live at the mo so I don't really get a chance to come here.

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        • RoseIsabella
          9 years ago

          Well, I'm glad to see you anyway!
          *Paws up*

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          • Tommythecat.
            8 years ago

            Paws up, claws out!

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            • RoseIsabella
              8 years ago

              Claws out... Mwahahaha!

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I suppose you are talking about a young guy? A lot of young guys are into notches on their gun, so to speak. Rack up the numbers with no regard for the intensity of the relationship or the quality of the experience. I must admit though, he has invested an inordinate amount of time in you for a cock's man, so perhaps he just doesn't understand the depth of your feelings for him and he isn't a cad at all.

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  • CheyChey
    9 years ago

    I have been texting with a guy for months now and he is always talking about visiting me and for a split second I thought that'd be a good idea but hearing your story has opened my eyes that we could easily just end up sleeping together and he'd lose interest and the whole thing would be fucked since he lives in another city. I'm. sorry that guy did that to you.

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    • derpyderp
      9 years ago

      You could also easily end up marrying that guy.
      Just sayin...

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      • CheyChey
        9 years ago

        That is so true, guess there's need to take a chance but also being careful, the heart is a fragile thing.

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  • atastychef
    9 years ago

    It's the "thrill of the chase" syndrome. It's not the kill, it's the thrill of the chase. Have you ever seen a cat go after a mouse? the cat chases, chases, chases, until he finally catches the mouse. the cat will then bat the mouse around a couple times, get bored. and walk away.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    Yea, perhaps there's another woman?

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