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I broke up with my boyfriend last week, he told me he needed time before we could be friends again, but ended up texting me today. I still like him, but it just wasn't really working out good enough. but i would really like to have sex with him, but idk how to ask.
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If you're only in it for sex, he might think you're getting back together and things could get complicated.
Tell him you selfishly desire him to be your fuck buddy. But, be clear that it is for sex only.
My ex gets a boner everytime he sees me, we kiss like crazy everytime we see each other (we work at the same office) I asked him íf he wants to have some fun later, he said lets not do it.. I asked if he wants to do it, he said yes but better not.. so I think having sex with ex is a bit complicated for me *women.. maybe not for guys. #whydidivoteyes
sex with an ex is too complicated you just want a booty call and they think you are back together.
Just do it.. I disassociated myself from a female former very close friend (many reasons), didn't talk to her for about a year, then received a text from her about somewhere we'd been. That became hey, let's meet for lunch. My negative feelings about her, personally, and her mindset of "throw anyone under the bus for personal gain" hadn't changed, neither did our unquestionable sexual attraction.
We agreed that associating with each other, day to day, again, was probably not a good idea, but...We should finally do what everyone we knew thought we were anyway.. Go fuck like animals and let loose on each other. As my house was closer, we went there, hit the guest bedroom, and, after a good 3 years of people thinking we were, finally had intense, passionate, purely physical sex. We should have done it years earlier.
After we finished and I took her back for her car, we again agreed..Really don't want to hang with you day to day, but maybe..This sex thing can work. We're obviously good at it together and now know what the other likes.. So, we kept it going every few weeks. Works well.
I agree, but I dont know if it's too soon because I literally broke up with him last week.
Well, a week isn't long..Technically, you're not even broken up yet..Just on a little breather..Let some time pass, then, if he's still interested in sex and you are, too..Go for it.
I admit, the sex with former friend/business associate was a long time in the making and a-mazing, but..I want nothing to do with her on a daily, like we were before, basis. Not to go all guy here, but, she's only good for one thing.
If he isn't someone you want around long term why risk getting back with him? Your apart for a reason. Only do it if your still willing to be in a relationship with him. Otherwise you could just end up making the breakup more painful
The only reason I wanna do it it's because it's summer and I'm bored and having his hugs and cuddles (and sex) would make me happy, because I have heaps of free time now, and I end up thinking and getting sad because I'm alone... However, I broke up for a reason, true. This is just a selfish wish to have sex with somebody, and the only person I can think of is him, because I haven't had sex or done anything else with anybody else for the past 2,5 years.