Meeting him for the first time.

Jesus lady, he sounds fucking dangerous. I wouldn't go anywhere near him - but if you do, follow the previous posters advice - take someone with you. jesus. Good luck, hope you keep safe

Do not sleep with him. Do not meet him. That is unless you 100%% trust him, but if you're asking here then you already know the answer. At least meet him first to assess his intentions. If he can't wait then you can do better. Take precautions such as a hidden weapon and tell someone where you are going. Always be safe.

Where is he from? So he wants to have sex? Big deal! You shouldn't have to feel pressure into having sex with him. You need to completely want this for it to be an experience you%%u2019ll gladly remember. At 19, you%%u2019re not a child anymore but isn%%u2019t it a bit premature to be talking about marriage and kids? Moving to another country is a big change. Are you ready to leave family and friends for this man? He%%u2019ll be all you%%u2019ve got in this new place. Have you talked to someone about this? Any of your friends know?

I%%u2019m not questioning your love for him, far from it. I know first hand how you can feel love through a %%u201Cvirtual relationship%%u201D. But please, be careful. Meet him in a public place the first time and maybe you can both do a bit of traveling before you decide to move there. After all, what's the rush? If he won't wait, maybe he's hiding and ulterior motive. Take care and be wise.

these situations are never entirely normal... but yet again in this day and age what is? but my advice to you is just be your self and always let him know how you feel. and about the sex thing even if you knew the guy it was still going to be hard but nobody can tell you when to be ready... if you not ready.... let him know, if he loves you he will understand. but sex is a beautiful thing and if you want to do it my advice would be to set the scene and the moment and make it perfect and RELAXING FOR YOU.

oh dear bring someone with you to meet this guy. you can never be too safe these days. I honestly wouldn't go back with him. Its too soon. you said you've been dating him for 7 months? thats not all that long my dear.
People arent 100%% who they seem to be online and I'm talking from my own personal experience. I've never moved in with a guy, but I had one move in with me a few years back biggest mistake of my life and I thought he was "the one"
and also one of my best friends moved half way across the country to move in with some guy, everything was fine and dandy until a month later when he almost beat her alive.

I'm not saying this will happen to you, but you need to be careful..

I hope you make the right choice.

I totally agree... raped and murdered by some crazy fuck who cant meet someone other than on the net....that is not normal.

This girl is probably in a garbage bag on the side of a ditch.

I'm late too but regarding this type of scenario: there is something WEIRD & DANGEROUS about a guy who dumps all these expectations - immediate sex, leaving with him, marriage, children - on your very first meeting!!! It is so inappropriate & manipulative and that he is getting away with means he knows this: YOUR BULLSHIT DETECTOR IS EITHER NOT TURNED ON OR IS TOTALLY MALFUNCTIONING!!!

There is nothing wrong with meeting & getting acquainted over the internet. But use common sense for god's sake.

If you are going to meet, do so in a public place, let people know where you are, take it slow like any other relationship, remember this person is a stranger, could be a lier, and don't meet with someone who has no boundaries in what they expect or say and is just manipulating you with your hopes.

Oh.. I really want to know what happened? I'm too late.. But, did you meet him?

Do not go. That simple. Take someone else with you when you go as well.

Don't give it up. Odds are he is just looking for sex and nothing more. If he says he doesn't want a relationship if you wont have sex with him, then he is an dick and there will not be a future with him even if you did have sex.

I forgot... It%%u2019s perfectly normal to be worried about sex and what you%%u2019ll look like, if you%%u2019ll be any good, etc. The first time with someone is always a bit stressful and sex is a learning process. If you really want to have sex with him, on your own terms, do it. Don%%u2019t think too much, just breathe and relax and keep in mind that things can only get better%%u2026 and use protection! ;o)

If he's been talking on the internet with you. it does mean he wants sex. Its normal to have a hookup from an internet friend. Dont worry, Im a guy and it doesnt matter how much experience a girl has. Just tell him how much you like it. I dont get the whole marriage part though?

So we are twins. Im in the same situation. I like loove this guy but it just doesnt seem real. I wana have sex with him but im a virgin do i really want to share something that special with a guy ive never even held hands with? and what if he doesnt like how i look with my clothes off. What if its akaward when we meet. there are a million things to freak about but idk, meet him, why not? he likes you, you like him. but take it sloww. you dont need to marry the first guy you have sex with.
I mean im the last person to be givin advise. but think about it, if your bestfriend was in the same situation what would you say to her?