Me and my shrink. iin?

As a child back then with 10-15 years...with my shrink...I hated it...
Her listening to me really was a boost in peer approval to me as my parents never listened to me. My father was alcoholic and lived far away from us and my mother always busy at her goddamn work getting no money in because of her son of a bitch boss. She was too soft and never handled things the right way with him and when I did she got mad at me. Her boss was also my boss. I was a student, she a teacher in a different class and he the school director.

Me being expelled and all that stuff I managed to stay in school because of my mother working there being able to defend me. I love her for that.

The school required me to go to therapy though as I had many problems in a girls school as a guy in social and math. I got tested alot and been with a shrink for awhile. I turned out to have aspergers and ADHD and a very high intelligence of 132.

Back to my question, My shrink and I were always talking finding the next way to get me more "normal". More like the others. Less of a misanthrope. (The strategy was to make me have less troubles with the world and she was a good shrink accually but in my case......)People saw me as a asocialist even though im not the tiniest bit.
"people dont pee in bottles at night because there too lazy to go to the bathroom"
"What you dont like your sister? you share genetic material so you HAVE to like her"
All those things she said made no sence and I asked her why I could not just be different than others. Not influenced by the media. Not like everyone else I form my own opinion on logic acting and own facts.

I dont get it until now. To be normal... Like everyone else... the Utopic Humanism... WHy... Just let me be me Im not mean.

Is it normal what happened between me and my shrink and all that stuff; my opinion?

Thanks