Me and my husband....

I have a bittersweet relationship with my husband. Generally, it's bitter for the larger half of the time, but that's not an exact estimate.

When me and my husband are alone together, we make up lists of what we like and dislike about each other. That is, unless The Living Dead is on, that's our favorite show! It's an open secret now that I also religiously watch Sister Wives, it's a reality show that's taped live.

What's your unbiased opinion on this? IIN?

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  • Energy

    Try to write down what you DO like about each other. It's disturbing how humans tend to stick to the negative things.

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  • topper33

    do you wish you were a sister wife?

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  • plum6

    I don't get how someting so trivial like your favorite television show could even be included in your post..

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  • JustDave

    My unbiased opinion is that The Walking Dead is an awesome show. Sister Wives sucks.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    My husband and I do some pretty fucking weird things ourselves. That's one thing that happens when you're married. You forget things like, giving a shit about trying to feel socially accepted and seen as someone who is perfect and without flaw XD

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  • VioletTrees

    I can see doing this once or twice as an exercise, but it seems kind of obsessive and unhealthy to do it regularly, particularly as you're including dislikes.

    Are there any other activities that you could do together? Understanding your feelings and problems is important, but relationships are built, healed, and improved through the time you spend enjoying yourselves together, not just analysis. I worry that listing the things you dislike about each other repeatedly might build on the bitterness, and even listing what you like about each other could be a problem if you're doing it instead of enjoying something together.

    It depends on how you're doing it, though. If it's completely serious, I think that's likely to be a problem. If you end up giggling, enjoying yourselves, and writing things like "smelly feet" under dislikes or something, that could be fine. My husband tells me that I'm composed entirely of butts on a regular basis (the butts are composed of smaller butts, which are made of even smaller butts, and then it's butts all the way down, I'm told).

    Anyway, I suggest that you find things you both enjoy and do them together.

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  • NeonLighterz

    Think positive.

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