Me and my girlfriend are having parent trouble when it comes to sex

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Okay so me and my girlfriend where going to have sex for the first time and its what we both want. But the last time I had it I was used. And she is a virgin. The point is we are both nervous and we both feel her grandparents are onto us. And they would disagree with what we want. And they would tell me to never come back. And I would not be able to see my girlfriend. Its a tense situation already. Im scared

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  • dom180
    9 years ago

    How old are you? If you're 16 or older, I think your families are being very unrealistic and they need to get over themselves. Sadly, no matter how old you are and how unreasonable they are there isn't anything I can see which you can do to change their minds.

    That doesn't mean you shouldn't have sex, though. It just means you should be very careful (about not getting caught, and about having *safe sex*). You're clearly young. Assuming her parents aren't going to literally kill you, you should be breaking rules and having fun.

    Sometimes when you both live with your parents it's difficult to find a private space for sex. Not everyone has an empty house all the time. You have to be a cunning opportunist. I was in a similar position with my first girlfriend. We were both virgins and she had conservative, over-protective parents who definitely would not have approved. In the end we used parents' her house; while they were out at a sort of village party, we stayed home and went upstairs. We didn't get caught.

    The real big deal is making sure you use protection properly.

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    • jakekieran
      9 years ago

      I am 17 and she is 16 and we have talked about safe sex. Thank you

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you are both way too young for sex. It really doesn't matter what you both want, if you are not really ready to do it. Do you understand about protection and the possible repercussions, like if she got pregnant? Slow down, what's your hurry? If you two are really in love, you have a lifetime of sex ahead.

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    • jakekieran
      9 years ago

      We have talked about the reprocussions and we both feel ready. Just nervous. I think. We will be using condoms

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  • loopoo
    9 years ago

    It's okay you'll probably be broken up this time next year

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