Me and my boyfriend...

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My boyfriend smokes, that doesnt bother me. But what bothers me is how much he does. Yes Im talking about weed. I mean, who cares if its like once a day, or every other day. No, He smokes almost all day when he's with my brother in law. I try to get him to do other things, I had to beg him to go on a walk with me tonight.
Is that normal? I mean is it normal that he just sits there, and acts like he doesnt really wanna be with me?

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    Drugs are bad mmmmmkaaay

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  • lilBlondeQTpie
    13 years ago

    Wow I swear you sound EXACTLY like my best friend. Yea it's not normal in our oppinion but hes gonna do it either way babe.

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  • smile22
    14 years ago

    I'd tell him if he his weed is more important than you are they he can Foxtrot Oscar (for those of you who don't know thats F*** Off) Plus using weed is connected to mental problems in the long term.

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  • theanswerisprobablynotnormal
    15 years ago

    He has a problem. Have him get help and quit. That simple.

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  • haleyxbailey
    15 years ago

    if hes not doing more than pot its not a big deal. just make sure he isnt doing it to hide from his feelings. he probably doesnt wan to do anything else because the pot makes him tired.

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  • jtball
    15 years ago

    Just blaze with him and go on high adventures together. Its a really great bonding experience.

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  • teapot
    15 years ago

    If he is high, then yes, sitting on a couch and looking stoned is very typical. Just talk to him. Ask him if he wants a pizza. He might respond very well to that.

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  • howudoin44657
    15 years ago

    It is not the typical norm. I really know how you feel. I dated a guy for 4 years and he did the same thing. What I was most worried about was how much he was spending on all of it. The bottom line is there are a lot of smokers out there that do enjoy to do stuff. Maybe you just need to find something that might be more interesting to him. Maybe go on a hike, try a new restaurant, rent an ATV, be a tourist for a day, or go fishing?? Ask him what he likes to do. If you love him and think there may be a future, try doing stuff that he would do that you normally wouldn't. You might like the change.

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    • illusionsofmankind
      15 years ago

      Yes there are alot of dope smokers, the ones that dont do anything else but get stoned, boring, boring, boring. I speak from experience as i have lived that boring life myself, its a drug and its adictive and it will mess with your thinking and perception of what is. If he wants to stop and live alittle try and get him to,help him, if he cant stop, try some drug helplines, weed is a big time problem and people think its normal and it aint when you are in it..

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      • howudoin44657
        15 years ago

        I actually think you have a good point there.

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