Mates girlfriend pulling another guy

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So basically i was out clubbing and i spot my best mates girlfriend (my friend didn't come out that night) and i caught her with her tongue down another guys throat.

I don't know what to do. My friend loves this girl and they've been together over a year. I don't wanna ruin their relationship. but i don't want him to be with someone unfaithful. I haven't spoken to the girl. Maybe it was just a one off mistake because she was drunk? Or maybe she does it all the time. Idk if i should tell him

Do i tell him what happened?

Tell him 49
Don't tell him 4
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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    It isn't you ruining their relationship by telling, it's her by cheating.

    Tell him. Whether to be in a relationship with her or not is his decision, and he should make it with all the facts.

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  • Jeaneathean
    10 years ago

    He really ought to know.

    What kind of of friend are you if you don't tell him?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I probably will tell him. I don't appreciate your last comment to be honest.

      I'm the kind of friend that would take a bullet for him, and I'm sure he'd do the same for me. I'm simply trying to make the best decision from a very, very sensitive situation.

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  • Syniister
    10 years ago

    Wouldn't you want your best friend telling you that your gf is cheating on you? What the hell, regardless if it's a drunk mistake or if she does it all the time, your mate needs to hear that kinda stuff. Like someone else said, it's not you ruining the relationship by telling, it's her.

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  • Chesteroooo
    10 years ago

    Better tell him. Poor friend of yours.

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  • Freedom_
    10 years ago

    Just be sure you saw what you think you saw. People have told my bf in the past that they saw me kissing another guy when it was nothing more than a hug or an innocent arm over my shoulders. Likewise, I was also told me they had seen my bf holding hands with another female but the person described was his sister so I know it wasn't like that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I'm 100% sure. After she pulled away from the kiss she caught my eye and looked shocked

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    10 years ago

    Well I told him. He's gonna address it to her but that's as far as it's got for now

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    • Sog
      10 years ago

      He's going to "address it to her"?

      Wow, that was his reaction?

      He should have his man card revoked.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        10 years ago

        What else should he do? he's take a mature approach for the sake of their relationship

        I bet you wonder why you're single

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        • Sog
          10 years ago

          Well, I'd rather be single than let a fat cheating ho walk all over me. So there.

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    Tell him to dump this low-down cheating ho.

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  • Crusades
    10 years ago

    Don't tell him. Find out if she's slutty enough. Maybe you can bang her too! Be smart!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      She's fat tho lol

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      • Crusades
        10 years ago

        LOL who the fuck dates a fat bitch??!!! Let alone a cheating fat bitch!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          eh she's not fat fat

          A bit chunky

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