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I know this isn't normal, but just wondering if there is anyone else out there with the same feelings. I've been married 3 years now and have recently started having lesbian feelings. I've had these feelings since I was a child, but have always tried to ignore them hoping they would go away because my family would not be very accepting of a same sex relationship.
well do you like your husband? I mean if you're attracted to him then you're bi who sounds like never had a lesbian experience. It's hard to get over this feeling then. If I were in shoes, first I wouldn't have got married before I know how it feels doing it with a girl. but it's too late for you, one of you is gonna get hurt. If I happen to be in this situation, I don't think I would be able to stop myself from something I want so bad but I don't know about you.
You need to be true to yourself. So if you're a lesbian, follow what your heart and gut tell you.
^also ignorant.
This is very normal, but you easily couldn't have known what these thoughts and curiosities would do to you. Nobody gets married with the plan to ruin the relationship or discover something like that about themself.
I'm bisexual and I guess I'm lucky. It was actually WITH my husband that I had my first experiences with woman.
Whatever you feel or felt, you are married now. Respect the sanctity of marriage or get a divorce and go crazy.
Are you bi or gay? If your a bi lesbian, talk to your husband and see if you two could do a threesome with another woman. if he likes the idea, go for it.
When you say lesbian feelings do you mean Bi? You can still love women and have sex with them be married to a man. As long as he accepts it. I know i would.
I'm married and my husband is fully aware that I love the ladies. Actually, I kissed my friend in front of him the night we met. So he's known all along. I don't know what you should do, but I know if something horrible happened and I wasn't with my husband anymore, I'd have to go prowling for some women. Its been too long
I myself am bisexual, and kinda know how it is. My homophobic boyfriend never knew I was bisexual, until I dumped him for being too girly. I was totally upset and confused on it, for I had these feelings since I was little. When the other preschool girls would stare At the little boys ding dongs when we went pee, I would see their coochies. No I'm not a pervert, I was 3. Besides, I also looked at ding dongs and such. Anywho back to the point, I suggest you tell your husband. You might be able to be married and meet couples who allow their wives to play. They can jack off while you girls have fun frisking around perhaps. That's what dan and jenn say, they are pretty smart with sex and relationship advice, try their site www.danandjen.com
Don't keep them bottled up tell them and if they don't acsept u screw them be yourself
^ how ignorant.
You aren't only hurting yourself by keeping these feelings bottled up but you are hurting your spouse because he deserves someone who truly loves him. I got married young, even though I knew I felt different than most, but couldn't explain WHY I felt that way. The marriage was short lived of course but I still feared coming out to my strict homosexual hating parents. At 25 I decided I couldn't live a lie anymore and had to tell. Today, I am 31 and in a wonderful lesbian relationship for years now...my parents are wild about her.
Give your family a chance to surprise you. If they disappoint...that is definitely a bad situation but you must remember that it is YOUR life and that you must make YOU happy!
Man!
Someone's about to be destroyed and I hope children aren't at play.
This might come off weird but I'm going to write it anyway...... YOU need to have that discussion with your husband in such a way he doesn't feel threaten. If your serious I suggest you include him into your desires by allowing him to assist you choosing a alt partner. A threesome might do wonders for both YOU and him.
if you felt this way you shouldn't of gotten married
it was selfish of you to do so for both your husband and for yourself