Married only. do you think (or know) that your spouse has cheated?

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Has your hubby or wife ever cheated on you? Or do you suspect they may have?

Yes. I know they cheated on me. 57
Yes. I suspect it, but am not positive. 50
Yes, but it was a long time ago. 11
Yes, but I don't really care. 11
No, I don't think they ever cheated. 66
Maybe before we were married. 8
Yes before we were married. 7
They cheat all the time. 7
We both cheat. 14
I don't know about them, but I cheat. 8
Yes, and I'm glad they cheat. 17
No, but I wish they would cheat. 14
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  • mmoliver69
    12 years ago

    I know that my husband has not cheated. But I have a daughter from a privious relationship. When he cheated on me, I knew. I could feel that something was wrong. I think most women do know, but do not want to admit it is happening. It is really easy to lie to yourself when you love someone. People should always follow their gut feelings when they feel that something is wrong. Your gut feeling never lies. That is one thing my dad always told me.

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  • Alexis425
    1 year ago

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    Aw, depressing results :(

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  • Lost4Thought
    12 years ago

    * can*

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  • Lost4Thought
    12 years ago

    * car*

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  • Lost4Thought
    12 years ago

    My husband is cheating on me. I have seen his text msgs and also found clothing and jewerly in the cat. Explains a lot but he is denying that he has been with another woman. Its funny cause they work together im just waiting for the day to catch him in bed with her so i. An kick both of their ass.

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  • MichelleFemale
    12 years ago

    Could someone please tell me what they think?. Read my comment above

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  • MichelleFemale
    12 years ago

    I think my husband may be cheating because he has a phone number to a woman on his phone. I keep up with how often they talk which really isn't much, but is always when I'm not around. I actually used caller id faker to call him with her number before. He answered and I just left the phone on mute while he kept saying ' hello?' Until he eventually hung up. When he hung up, I called from my real phone number and he avoided all my phone calls. I dk if I'm just being to paranoid or what. :(

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    • Milenajonijon
      12 years ago

      You re not being paranoid. That's terrible ... Im sure when u talk to him about it deep down u know if he is lieing or not. Confront him in a calm, rational way. Say u want to talk and ask him strait up. If u attack him you will never find out and he ll go out of his way to cover it up more. Maybe do some more investigating first.

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  • lovingrisks
    12 years ago

    This is out of question. If you truly Love someone then you will never think of cheating on partner. To me this is an act of disloyalty and disgrace to your relationship. You have respect the moral values. And it not at all brings any satisfaction. The satisfaction you get by making love to your women is the best feeling of all...!!!

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  • LovingTogether
    12 years ago

    My wife of 57 years and I cheat together. It is wonderful to watch, be watched and enjoy each other. We've been enjoying sex with others for over 35 years and it's helped our strong marriage. We just love it!

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    • Bumholelover
      11 years ago

      can i fuck her

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  • Qtip
    12 years ago

    I think that if you know someone well enough in a relationship, you should be able to "sense" infidelity. Proving it is another matter.

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  • iilittleoneii
    12 years ago

    Do you have a poll option that says "never been married" XD

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  • I_steal_free_bread
    12 years ago

    Quick question, am I allowed to post here if im not married?

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      Why not? i'm going to post too.

      I had a coworker once who thought his wife was "too stupid" to know he was cheating on her when he took vacations alone.

      We always figured she knew and never said anything as long as he was discrete. Though she was pissed when she found the used condom in the car... I doubt she really bought his story that one of his friends just "dropped" it by accident. (cos really, who carried used condoms around anyway?... well except for one skanky girl in my theatre group who kept them in her leather jacket pocket. ... and yes I'm serious. I felt bad for the guy who borrowed the coat and shoved his hands in... bleh.)

      But anyway... if you think your spouse doesn't suspect... you're probably wrong.

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      • DiscoDuck
        12 years ago

        Yeah mine suspects it even when I don't.

        Don't answer the phone = cheating...
        Home 5 min late = cheating...
        Someone calls with the wrong number = cheating...
        Don't come on to her for sex so she can turn me down = cheating...

        Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Oh well....

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        • Milenajonijon
          12 years ago

          U said even when I don't? Does that mean u cheated before? In which case trust has been broken.. Welcome to the rest of ur life

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        • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
          12 years ago

          That could be warning signs for other deeper issues.

          I worked with a guy who had that same issue. We couldn't answer his phone if it was an outside-line call because ... if a girl answered his phone his wife would accuse him of cheating on her.

          However after the DNA tests were done, he found out he didn't father at least 2 of the kids.

          Now ... if you really have cheated in the past, then being suspected IS part of the punishment. Suspicion has been earned.

          But if you've never cheated at all... you may want to consider....

          1) Your partner may be trying to cover up - or justify their own indiscretions
          2) Insecurity - you may want to take time to build up the relationship to make that part easier
          3) Hormones - just be understanding

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      • DiscoDuck
        12 years ago

        Oh oh, I have another one. What do you think about these cases???

        I had this GF [adult in her 30's] who thought I was cheating. One day I decided to go with a female co-worker to pick up lunch that everyone had ordered...maybe 7 people. So I figured I would help her carry the food. This girlfriend was waiting in the parking lot and saw me get in the car with this female co-worker and leave. Later she called me at work crying and very upset having "Caught me in the act..." and broke up with me, the now cheating man-whore. Little did she know that I was going to carry lunch back for all of my co-workers and had she stayed and continue to spy on me or even followed me she would have seen that.

        And another one.
        Another GF in her upper 30's. I was at home alone and she called to talk. I was a little tired from a long day and didn't feel like driving to her house some 1 hour away. We talked for a few minutes and hung up. I immediately went in to take a shower. Apparently while in the shower she had called back, and of course no answer from me. During those 15-20 min in the shower she called like 10 times. Each time getting madder and madder until she told herself I was playing games with her and probably seeing another female. Of course she broke up with me that night.

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  • kesdog
    12 years ago

    sometimes we are not getting attention at home and are horny and you start firting and it become a coffee or a drink at a pub and maybe something else .myself have up and down hormone problem and when I am horny as hell my doctor said go pay for it get it out of your system you feel dirty but its good too . my partner said had not have sex for 18 monthes because of a cancer scare with girlfriends had a few drinks 6 women offer me sex you could say they felt sorry for me and I have f-ck them all of them 18yo to 63yo ,i am 55 f-ck why not and the 63yo is now a weekly root so I love to have sex with my partner but she does not want too as she says i did not enjoy it last time what am i suppose to do but i will not stop trying to have sex with her I miss the out private momments together but some offers you sex use a comdom and f-cking enjoy it while you can .out of the 6 women 2 still want sex with me because they are unhappy with there partners sex drive what do you do .??

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    • DiscoDuck
      12 years ago

      Very interesting....

      These days with so much deadly disease going around, I'd just hang my balls up and call it quits. If I can not have sex with my partner then its either my hand or nothing.

      BTW, the second largest group to have STDs besides teenagers are the elderly.

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