Married man watch porn does it mean he loves you?

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I'm confused I saw my husband cell phone and I saw that he was logging to you tube and he download some porno videos I don't want tell him what I saw but from inside im disappointed and pissed of I dot know what it means and bad thing is that he hides it from me and he denied it and when ever I ask him he just ignores me I don't know if maybe is a habit or I don't satisfied him or their no attraction at all and what makes me confused is that he tells me that he wants to have a child I have one precious daughter and he wants another. what it that mean? I really need an opinion or advice?

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  • nobody2468
    9 years ago

    There maybe few reasons why he denies it. He can be ashamed, he may know/think you have negative attitude towards porn or he wants to try some thing new but he is too scared to ask.

    If I would be in your place then I would CALMLY tell him that I know and I will be happy to talk with him more about that when he will be ready. After that I would give him few days to let him prepare emotionally to conversation...
    Don't fight or yell, it will only make things worse. Try to be calm, patient and try to understand him. He isn't you, he may have different wants and needs and if that's the case then you both have to come up with compromise.

    Also do you know why he is watching porn ? Is it because he enjoys watching other woman (single girls in porn) or because he have some fetish or wants to try something but is afraid/shamed to tell you (he keep watching similar themed porn) . If you are not disgusted by porn then try to watch it with him. Maybe you sill see some pattern.

    If he keeps ignoring you and avoiding conversation after you gave him some time then that only shows he is immature, insecure and he don't want to work with you on problems in your relationship.

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  • sheat
    11 years ago

    yeah... thanks for your opinions. appreciated

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  • pancakesorwaffles
    11 years ago

    what a dick , he has children! and he still watches that stuff , gross. throw away his phone .
    you're welcome.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Many people watch porn. I've watched a few with my current partner and I would not be angry if I knew he was watching without me. Maybe he jusst think that you won't understand that it's just entertainment for him and that he's not comparing you to porno stars.

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