Married man watch porn does it mean he loves you?

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I'm confused I saw my husband cell phone and I saw that he was logging to you tube and he download some porno videos I don't want tell him what I saw but from inside im disappointed and pissed of I dot know what it means and bad thing is that he hides it from me and he denied it and when ever I ask him he just ignores me I don't know if maybe is a habit or I don't satisfied him or their no attraction at all and what makes me confused is that he tells me that he wants to have a child I have one precious daughter and he wants another. what it that mean? I really need an opinion or advice?

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    THEN WHO WAS PHONE???

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    You 'saw' his phone or you were snooping through it? Big difference. You seem very insecure. People, not just men, watch porn. There is nothing wrong with that. Considering he wants a kid I guess its safe to say you have a sex life. I think you're stressing yourself out over nothing.

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    If somebody watches romantic movies about love and strong emotions, it does not mean that this person does not love his or her partner or that he or she is not sexually or emotionally attracted to their real life partner. The same applies to watching porn.
    The only difference is that unfortunately people are ashamed of their sexual response to porn, and sadly many people are sexophobic or suffer from pornophobia or they have conflicting attitudes to sex or porn, and that´s why they hide it and decide to be secretive.

    My point is that it is normal that he watches porn.

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    Looking at porn is normal. Don't be so insecure. You could always watch porn together to spice things up as well but don't ask your man to not look at porn. He's not doing it because he doesn't love you he's doing it because its natural to masturbate and guys are very visual. Most people look at porn and if you don't .... consider yourself in the minority. It's ok. But its also ok to watch porn.

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    10 years ago

    I could give you a good answer concerning the subject coz I've a friend addict to watch porn. he is already in his 2and marriage destroyed coz of that but...pry in husbands phones is something that does not deserve my respect.
    If you want him to go for good keep doing it.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    men watching porn is normal, have you read 50 shades of grey? that's written porn. Still porn. Does it mean you no longer love your husband? no. Does it mean you never want another child? no. same goes for romance novels of any kind, any movie with a romance plot or a sex scene or a funny email from a friend with the naked santa's in them.

    watching/reading porn is normal. Masturbating to porn is normal. masturbation while in a relationship is normal.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Well obviously because he wacks off to porn on his phone it means he doesn't love you or find you sexually attractive anymore.

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  • jucedaguy
    11 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with watching porn, it doesn't mean he finds you less attractive.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    There's a few things that need addressing here but can I ask, is you husband normally more open about things?

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