Man whom i've rebuffed his numerous advances still asks me out

This guy who looks and acts strangely has been asking me out for the past year. I've told him point blank that I'm not interested. He's not my type, we have nothing in common AND he is 40 years old and lives with his parents. WTF do I want or need with that?

Yet, he still keeps sending me e-mails asking me out on dates, inviting me to different events, etc. Is it normal for someone to not take "NO" for an answer? Should I consider a restraining order against this weirdo?

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Based on 68 votes (36 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • smile22

    I'd tell him that you clearly aren't interested and to kindly leave you alone, he sounds desperate!

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  • HitlerSausageSlave

    You should have sex with another guy on his desk at work, while he's at lunch. Video record it. Then send him the video in his email. Leave a steamer in his drawer too. After that he'll think you're a whore and stop bothering you out of fear he'll die of AIDS, if he touches you. Either that or tell him you're a lesbian, and you want to douche his mother.

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  • Skitzo1

    I was "like" him once, at school. But thats at school, i really really liked this girl, so I'd ask her out, like once a month.
    I admire his persistance I guess, that's what i would have said if he didnt do it over email. What a coward, if i "was" him I'd ask you out like once a month tops, and do it in more intresting ways, like giving you flowers and stuff, but that's if you were really "something" and i really, really, liked you.
    In the end i got the girl though! She was just saying no cos she liked someone else, but my persistance made it! Bitches! Then i dumped her like 2 months later when she had major B.O.

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    • Elliemental

      First...hahahaha hahahaha
      Second...how comes you didn't smell her in the all the time you were perusing her?

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  • hairyfairy

    He`s a stalker, & you need to get a reastraining order now . He needs psychiatric help.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Block his emails and try to cut all ties with him. If he still persists, then get a restraining order.

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  • HSVWHO

    U can't get a restraining order for just that reason. He needs to have done some serious stalking n potentially harm u in any way.. U may claim psychological damage but if chances are quite low. Tell him to stop! Tell him he is making u uncomfortable and then if he doesn't u can report him to the police. Then u may be able to get one if the police suggest it,

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  • jessmartian

    Restraining orderrrrrrrrr

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  • SamuraiPeeper

    You sound kinda snotty.

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  • curiouskiddo

    OMG! I think it's totally normal. Everyone I reject always comes back and asks over and over again. It's annoying, but normal.

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  • SaaaaaaaaayWhit

    Block His Emails.
    Or just tell him why you dont want to actually do it.

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  • madmax125

    its perfectly normal.... u have ur right to choose

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    • madmax125

      sorry for the above reply.. i was tryin to reply for another post.. u should get a restraining order.. he's a psycho i guess

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  • andrian007

    Firstly, you gotta give him credit for being persistent. It is normal for men to be like that. You wouldn't like your fella to give up at the first opportunity for every single thing he does in life, at work or outside work.

    Second thing is if his only mode of communication so far is email, then easy, just block his email address and you will never get anything from him ever again. If he also calls you, then block his phone number. A restraining order is a bit far-fetched, unless of course, he starts stalking you in your flat/house or something.

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  • MadHatter

    Maybe you should break all ties with him. He's taking advantage of your friendship (if there is one?), and not respecting your choice.

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  • Jim_Pfoss

    It's not polite to call someone a "weirdo." Idiots don't like that word.

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