Male virgin

Is it normal to be 23yr. male virgin? I know it shouldn't bother me because I am waiting for the right girl to lose it to but I feel like I'll never lose my virginity, and I feel worse about since I'm a guy.

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Based on 296 votes (213 yes)
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Comments ( 33 )
  • faisoly

    No one is virgin LIFE FUCKS US ALL

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  • Isolated

    Normal. You still have a life ahead of you. If you can't find anyone special, just go on arranged dates. It's better to have a nice relationship with someone rather than just being laid with no mutual feelings with your partner.

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  • jmducky

    I'm a 26 year old female and have never had sex I too am waiting for someone I can see myself making a life together. I don't thing I want to wait for the wedding night but I want to be sure he's the one and it's special I really have never met a guy who has never done it or won't admit they haven't ithink it would be awesome to find a guy who wants to wait. My hate is off to you I hear it is harder for a guy to wait.

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  • frend

    HMMMM..... YESSSS UR RITE HE MAY FEEL THE SHAME AS U SAID HIS GIRL MAY B MORE EXPERIENCED DAN HIM

    BT ITS NT ALWAZ NECESSARY
    SO U GUY FEEL PROUD TO BE ONE OF VERY FEW GUYS WHO ARE UNDR CONTROL AND KNOW HOW TO LIVE A WELL CONTROLLED LIFE AND UR WIFE WUD BE VERY LUCKY HAVNG A VERY SAFE ND HONEST GUY LIKE U....
    HATSS OFFFFFFFF TO U

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  • Laena

    Wait for the right person.

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  • ohnoes22

    Yeah, these days almost everyone is a whore

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  • AlexandraRuth

    That's awesome. Even though you're a guy, don't think that it means you need to be TYPICAL. Your special person, when you finally find her, will feel very special to be your first because it's such a rare thing nowadays.

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  • Once u get marriedhl or find the right girl ur gonna wonder what it's like with other girls then ur guna end up cheating. Don't be a dick... Use ur dick

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  • ramenthief

    its something to be proud of sir
    you can be like one of them easily in just a day or two
    but no matter how hard they try they will never be like you again

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  • chicabonita

    Sweet!! Unlike men women looove virgins! Don't go to a stripper or anything ur first will be remembered for ever!

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  • Wow. Dude, if your not anisocial or super ugly or anything like that then you will find the right girl who feels the same.

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  • thisnameisnotboring

    I think you are very smart to wait for the one.
    My last boyfriend was still a virgin and he was 21. It made me feel so special and respected.

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  • BAMF257

    These are all women commenting. Listen to me. You are young one time. When you wait for the right one and you get married and then lose your virginity, 2 years down the road you're going to be like, "well shit, this feels awesome. I wonder how it is with others???" This is a fact and WILL happen. Since you're still a virgin, you are either not confident in yourself, you aren't attractive at all and/or you're super religious. If one of those is true, then good luck explaining to your shriveling penis how things could've been. DO NOT LISTEN TO WOMEN WHEN THEY SAY YOU ARE SPECIAL. Nice guys finish last. Or special guys. Or virgins.

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  • Dudewhodoesntcare

    Dude, you are in deep shit.
    I lost virginity a year ago, i was 24.
    THERE IS A F...ING LOT JOB TO DO for you. Besides, you will probably have difficulties in sex. I had meeting with other virgins of age 23-25 - i can say that ALL of them had sexual problems and ALL of them had mental problems. Me too. There is nothing to wait, nothing will change untill YOU change it. Don't listen to people who advice to wait for a right person - you had plenty of time and didn't find any, the reason is that ALL GIRLS DON'T like you. Try reading DJ bible or similar books.

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  • Repetitive

    Can't be fucked with reading over everybodys comments, but I personally see this as fine, me and my boyfriend have a long term relationship hes 23 now and I've just turned 19, we both losts ours together only half a year ago.. we haven't had a bad sex life since and no problems that can't be handled. If you're waiting on the right person, then do just that, half of these people saying you're gunna cheat ect, screw them am sure you can control your dick that much when you find the right person, geez ^^.

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  • I'm waiting for the right guy to come along too. That's a good thing. When I find someone I really like I don't want him to have slept with a bunch of girls

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  • SAnnDel

    Yes, don't feel bad and don't worry about it. When it's right with the right person, you will know it and will not regret it. Don't feel pressured, just enjoy the search and how great it will be when you are with the right person without being shackled with tons of regrets that others have because they lept before they looked.

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  • supaflyafro

    im 20 and still a virgin. i understand now. i wanna lose it to sum1 i really really like instead of a girl i dont like and then us guys have dat talk we tell who we 11st had sex with. i dont wanna be like not wanting to lie about it or feeling embarrassed about who i did it with

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  • cougar

    I don't think it's harder for a guy to wait cuz masterbation is easier for them. I think waiting is fine if it's what u want. Then again your in your prime now. Whatever you choose, be happy with the choice.

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  • yessss

    I recently had sex with a guy like you. I was his first and he was not mine so he felt bad about it. Because it was special for him and not for me. You may feel the same if you do your first with a more experienced girl. i personally find it not normal but who cares it is your life.

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  • Ya man it is fine but when you get it it is GREAT!!!!!

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  • jroscom

    I didn't loose my virginity till I was 21. And and I thought I was special.

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  • Ratso

    Ok wow that last comment was harsh. Nice dude and don't worry about being a virgin. Its better to wait for the right one. And ignore idiots like the last commenter he was just trying to sound like he knows everything. Anyone wanna net he's still a virgin???

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  • mysti446

    Its Something to be proud of, so don't worry if it's normal or not..

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  • xpollysaurasrexx

    Good boy x] i respect you for that- and she will come along :] dont worry so much.

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  • Andyen

    Dont worry about it. I was a virgin till i was 20. Im your age now. Truthfully i wish i didn't lose it when i did. Have it before marrage though, you should be more practiced in the sex department. It helps the overal realationship thing. Dont worry about being a virgin. Yes guys are horney but so are females. The statistics are wrong. Females and Males are both in the line on loosing their Virginity early, girls are now actually winning because society is telling them its ok to be openly horney. :D

    you'll probibly loose it on an inpulse, your time will come.

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  • tommybowers

    I was a late-in-life lay. I said I wad waiting, but who was ibtrying to kid! I was too shy to even kiss.

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  • x6tence

    lmfao at bamf wanna make out sexist <3 hahah come to think of it when yar virgin n when not? i swear for weenies its jus being virgin in ur head n maybe expierence alright...only girls can lose virginity tho

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  • BAMF257

    Yea dude. Sorry for being so "harsh." go ahead and be special. All of these women are right. I wouldn't know any better, I'm still a virgin myself. Oh well, good luck with that. You know what, I just have to say though that all of these people here are never going to have sex with you. Not these people, not people in yourl life, no one. If a woman considers you special, you are not gettin' that ass. But don't take advice from a guy is telling you the absolute truth. These women know better. Again, good luck with your sexual discomfort.

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  • 0000Lz4

    could end up like 40 yrold virgin. Good luck!

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  • whyhellothere

    Be proud sir :)

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  • Najwa

    Shyness is unattractive (at ur age) and an unconfident lover is mostly intolerable...
    Experienced women want satisfaction and not a pupil.

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  • hahahahaha

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