Male that enjoys anal stimulation

its ok if you want it coming from a women and specially if that women is your wife, and you should tell your wife if you have or not sexual attraction for men, theres nothing gay about anal stimulation, and for your other question, yes there are a lot of women that are disgusted by this but there are a lot that enjoy doing stuff like this.

No, I do not think all women are disgusted at the thought of or the request for anal stimulation. Obviously, ones bottom is associated with unpleasant smells and dirtiness and we are taught from childhood to avoid any unnecessary contact with it as it is germ laden.

I am pretty sure that a majority of men and women are put off by any thoughts of anal stimulation but I am also sure that many of this group would become quite interested if the subject was discussed and investigated in a sensible way.

This aside, there are many men and women who get a great deal of pleasure from their bottoms, usually in private as they would hesitate to broach this subject because of fear of the reaction.

Anal pleasure is something that is discovered, often in childhood, and nothing can be done about it. It is either there or it is not there. There is no "cure" for it and neither should there be, we are as we are made. Personally, I think those who enjoy anal stimulation are lucky in that they are endowed with this additional source of pleasure. Fortunately, this is recognized more fully today and there are many anal stimulators and toys on the market in response to the demand for them.

It is a great pity that your wife has turned against providing you with this form of stimulation and I wonder if she can be persuaded to resume it. Maybe you should ask her what has put her off. Has she tried it herself and would she allow you to try it on her. Is she put off by the smell and thought of what comes out of it. Is it that she does not like cleaning up afterwards. Maybe she is approaching that time of life when many women lose interest in sex.

Actually, if you were both naked and she mounted you from behind with a strap on dildo inserted into your anus and she lay along your back and handled your penis at the same time as she moved on you, she may find the dildo stimulating her clitoris very pleasurable. There are dildos that stimulate the female wearer and maybe she should try one of these.

Is it possible for you to trade this practice off against your doing something that she likes. Ask her what she really enjoys and perhaps try something out on her to see what turns her on.

If all else fails, you could seek advice from a trained therapist or go to a counseller, on your own initially and then you might suggest going together.

I think it is sad when either party to sex refuses to do what the other asks as so much pleasure can be missed and this can lead to frustration and all that follows.

Anyway, I hope the above may be of help.

Lots of guys like it. Guys have a g spot in their ass, so it's a special orgasm spot. You may just need to masterbate anally when she isn't around.

It's a problem for a lot of guys I'm sure. I would love to do my wife anal but she will not think of it. As far as anal stimulation is concerned no way she would bork at the thought of it. She gives me head but would never go all the way, before we married she was much more wild. But women seen to think that sex is secondary once marred.

So what to do,Well I Pay2Play it's not what I consider being unfaithful. I need to for fill these fantasies before I died. I'm 44 and love my wife. But I need this kind of sex it keeps me Sean. I've done anal, blow jobs, cum one faces, I've been done with a strap on just to see if I liked it, I've had black chics,very nice to. Japanese , Chinese, Indians, I'd really like to try a very pretty oriental ladyboy one day but she would have to be more girl than boy if you know what I mean.

Anyway this is probably what you will have to consider if you Want to for fill your particular fantasie,

Life is to short not to know or for fill such great experiences . Good Luck.

Dude im 22 and my girlfriend has absolutely no problem with anything you have mentioned above. That being said you're talking about your wife not girlfriend this is supposed to be the person who you share your deepest fantasies and desires with and they fulfil them even if they aren't that into it. Might not be my place but I think you should re-evaluate your relationship

i agree with geno

I'm married but I would never reveal to my wife that anal was something I would like. Besides, a dildo couldn't possible be as exciting as the real thing.

Nothing wrong with you...anal is great...as you know !