Male shaving habits: face shaving.

My boyfriend has a barely-there beard. He shaves his throat but not his upper cheeks. He has a mole on one side of his face on his cheek bone area that is hairy and extends-blending into his beard below. It looks messy and I've asked him why he doesn't shave that part off too. He said it was nonsense to shave up there. Is that true? I think he's wrong.

I shave my entire face. 53
When I grow my face-hair, I still shave my throat and upper cheeks 25
When I grow my face-hair, I shave only my throat. 3
When I grow my face-hair, I shave nothing. 12
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Comments ( 23 )
  • Justsomejerk

    His beard, his rules.

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    • prasatko

      True! Just four words, but they nicely sum up the essence.

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  • anti-hero

    I never shave my throat, it is too hard to swallow the blades.

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    • KeddersPrincess

      You mean you don't shave your esophagus??!!! *gasp* Egad!!

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      • anti-hero

        I tried it once but the medical bills were too high.

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    • ghettomex92

      hahaha I literately laughed out loud!!

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      • anti-hero

        Glad I could help.

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  • Corleone

    Depends on what beard style you want. However, it's best to keep it somewhat trimmed so it doesn't look to messy. Especially stray hairs, like on his mole, are things you should shave.

    I don't know what your friend's face looks like, but maybe he'd be better off shaving his upper cheeks, or at least trim it down so the hair fades. If you've got too much hair on your cheeks, your face will appear shorter. A thinner beards make your face longer though, so he should adjust according to his face type.

    That's about all I know. I don't have a beard though, I prefer to be clean-shaven. It's a lot less work, and while some people like me with a beard, I feel that it makes me look badly groomed. Especially in combination with my pale skin.

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  • Cheese123

    4 yrs later, are you still together?

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  • Robin1992

    Brazilian style. It has to go. All of it. But thats just because i look like an underweighted hobo when i dont shave.

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  • TheGasManCometh

    I'm totally on your side, and I recommend drugging him and shaving his cheeks!

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    • RoseIsabella

      Laser!

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  • dappled

    Like the American myth that every Englishman is toothless and gay, the English have a myth that all Irish men grow a second set of eyebrows on their upper cheeks by not shaving there. It's not true, of course, but it does highlight that we see cheek-brows as a negative thing.

    I'm not sure of your boyfriend's reasons but it's not something that I, or anyone I know, would do. The bristles on my neck are always the same length as the bristles on my cheek. Whatever I do, shaving-wise, gets done to both at the same time.

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    • anti-hero

      But if they were all toothless while being gay, wouldn't that be to their advantage?

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      • dappled

        Aye, this is true. Nobody wants a bitey blowy. And I should know. I've had one!

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        • anti-hero

          Must have been from an outsider, you people have no teeth after all.

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          • dappled

            Ahh, no, she was woman. The female of our species have gnashers. Rotten, brown sharp ones, but gnashers all the same!

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            • Ah england, wonderful people, prone to binge drinking and occasional violence.

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            • anti-hero

              Brown? Must be all that tea. You all have tea IVs right?

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