Male, but compare to women?

I'm a man, but my whole life I compared myself to girls.

The biggest case is with female friendships between two girls, I will feel like my friendships are not intimate like this.

I would go to a female friends house and feel inferior my room isn't all decorated like hers.

I will feel like I am not attractive like they are.

And even their behavior, organizational skills, discipline, achievements, I am always comparing to women.

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  • Meowy

    I used to compare myself to girls as well. For as long as I can remember my best friends (and most friends in general) have been girls. I also have a sister, so maybe that's why, but I was always thinking, "Why am i so different? Am i doing something wrong?"

    Also I am going to say about the decoration part. You should decorate your room how you want to. Not everyone is the same, (This is an example please don't hate on me) Your friends might have pink walls, and Pony's on the walls, etc. but you might have red walls, with spiderman all over the place. I think that you should not paint your walls pink, and add ponies just because everyone else has them, you should have what you want up there.

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  • Waiting4Superman

    Did you grow up with girls? I am a girl and i compare myself to boys. I think because I grew up with boys. I don't know how to be a girl.

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    • Yeah, and non-masculine dad

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      • Waiting4Superman

        That's probably why and it's perfectly okay.

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        • :) 💟

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  • Dustyair

    I can see that, many women have a natural social flow with people as compared to men. You just don't see women running around with a gun mowing people down like men do, for instance. Women tend to be more open minded too.

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    • Hateful1

      Your right women tend to use poison and strangulation.

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    • Did you hear my yawn?

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      • Dustyair

        No, sorry I did not, I'm playing a new video game.

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  • CDmale4fem

    If you want to compare yourself then why not do what I did, I just started wearing female attire, lingerie, etc. Get all dressed up in female attire then try to compare yourself to real females.

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  • Hateful1

    Now I think your a women posting click bait. But in case your not.

    Women have very few positive relationships with other women who are not family. Please understand they can have many close relationships. These are formed out of mutual benefits. But these are very rarely positive. My step sister said it all when she told me "You can tell women really like each other when they call each other bitch."

    What is stopping you from decorating? Go online. There is a plethora of people who post designing tips. My tip. A lot of cheap crap means you like cheap crap. Buy things with meaning and function instead.

    As for your next statement. My advise is the same as for the decorations.

    And your last statement. There are very few women who I admire for these reasons. Men and women have different priorities in life.

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    • Ellenna

      You are talking rubbish and so was your step sister. It's lazy and stupid to make generalisations about an entire gender: we're not all the same, you know, any more than men are.

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      • Hateful1

        So all the generalizations you make about men means your lazy and stupid?

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        • Ellenna

          When have I made generalizations about men?

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  • ANALRAPIST

    Cute

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