Making out gets boring after certain amount of time

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My girl friend and I have done "making out" for many times.

i havend had sex with her, ill wait till marriage or she allows me to do so, which i already told my gf.

so instead we either make out, does neck kiss, or touch body part.

but after certain amount of times, i lose the excitement and do not enjoy as much as i did in the beginning.

whenever this happens i feel bad cuz i should be enjoying, but i feel like im doing it without emotion or something

its hard to explain.

but whenever i make out with her next day, it feels good again, but it gets kinda "bored" as we do it.. but it refreshes next day.

i hope you guys understand what i am talking about.

is this normal for everyone? i just wanna know

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  • elasticband
    13 years ago

    Oh I do like long make out sessions. I can't get enough.

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  • alexbsc
    14 years ago

    she needs to suck you off.

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  • AnonymousSource
    5 years ago

    I know exactly how you feel, kinda, when me and my bf would makeout it’s was fun and had a great feeling at first but as it became more frequent and I guess in a way part of a routine I started to get bored like I would try and end it and make conversation but then we would just end up kissing again what I found works is I took a little break from seeing him everyday, so we would see each other once in a while, like when he would walk me to class so when the next week started it wasn’t as boring anymore, I guess it kinda seemed like a chore since it was so repetitive, but it is such a relief to see that I’m not the only one it happened to

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Simple..... Everything we face excitement we want more and more. Going back does not help.... We expect more....

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  • dandyLion
    11 years ago

    you need a blow job.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well - you aren't going all the way. So you are having sex, to a certain point, but not entirely. A bit tortuous. But there it is. That's OK if that is what you both agree to and want & you have necessary precautions, besides will-power (i.e. condoms). Talk with your gf. You only need to go as far as you both want to. And it certainly doesn't have to be all the way. But of course, you can't expect your bodies not to want to, and so after a while, maybe you should just cool it off.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yeah that's normal and it has happened to me too and I thought something was wrong with me. :P and yeah, this is totally normal, and eventually you will get used to it (:

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  • bdasd
    14 years ago

    uhm well spice it up

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  • combatgal856
    14 years ago

    Continuous activity is bound to get boring some time. It's like continuously eating your fav food, it will eventually get boring. But not for long.

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  • Summerlove87
    14 years ago

    Yes most couples go through that.

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  • justagirl23
    14 years ago

    same here.
    thats normal.
    us as humans have a serain attention sapn.
    and once you refesh it its ohhk.for a while.
    just mix it up a little like a *hand job* or oral or just watching porn together.

    comment my questions plzz.

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  • wibble
    13 years ago

    Girls aren't attracted to sissies, they want you to just go for it - the pussy that is.

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  • WayOutThere
    14 years ago

    It's getting boring because it's not resulting in sex.

    If you do have sex, then this becomes positive reinforcement, and the "making out" gets a lot more exciting because it's associated with the sex.

    I believe it's unnatural and unhealthy to constantly "make out," but not allow that to lead to sex.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      yeah, but sex will eventually get boreing too.
      so its just progressing.
      I didn't like kissing my last girlfriend, don't know why.But i dodn't liked it from a start, and not after a 5 minutes.

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