Make this feeling go away?

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well i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and i love him and all but i get this feeling...it feels like guilt maybe? maybe because i don't love him as much as he loves me..but im so attached to him but this feeling is dragging me down and i don't know what to do....someone help please? is it normal?

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Based on 64 votes (49 yes)
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  • OswaldCobblepot
    11 years ago

    Devour his heart.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    You're down talking yourself. You say you love him, but fear he loves you more. Have more confidence! There are many forms of love, and you just love him in your own way. If you don't plan on leaving this guy, then all your doing is torturing yourself. Just because you don't show your love the same way he does, doesn's mean you don't love his as much :)

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    • sydney.williams
      11 years ago

      this is the most positive feedback i've gotten. thank you. you have given me hope that this relationship will last c:

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  • #morethanbirds
    11 years ago

    how do you know that he loves you more? you can't! maybe you should talk to him and see where he stands in the relationship. I don't think you should break up. I just think that if you went and got a house, and the lightbulb broke, you wouldn't go and buy another house, you would get a new lightbulb.

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  • Isabella80s
    11 years ago

    TALK to him and be honest. I'm sure you can work it out. Good luck.

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  • sydney.williams
    11 years ago

    i am happy i just feel like i don't love him as much as he loves me..

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  • sydney.williams
    11 years ago

    he's kinda clingy and he's really emotional. i think the biggest thing is that i don't want to hurt him..

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    • dirtybirdy
      11 years ago

      If you're not happy, don't stay. Nothing good will come of it. You can't always put other peoples feelings ahead of your own happiness.

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  • Dad
    11 years ago

    Could it be he's 'possessive'? Possibly infatuated? Or even over bearing?
    These things are not healthy in a relationship, get him to seek help.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Maybe you feel like the relationship has run its course. It happens. Don't stay with him just because you love him and are attached. Sometimes its just best to move on before things get really ugly.

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