Luv the girl who disgraced me like a million times is it normal ?

i met a girl a year back, was attractive and sweet.... i used to be her class mate at a science academy.....
i fell in love with her, with her nature to be precise, and was head over heels in love with her, but she wasnt into me... i tried everything to win her heart, but she would never acknowledge my feelings for her...

i was always trying my best to help her in various situations, but she would just brush off all my emotions...
she became friendly with time, but whenever i used to tell her how much i love her, she would ignore me, and would ignore all my texts for days.... this continued for like 6 months, when one day, i got a bit fed up and asked her to end our friendship, cause i was only being dragged...
but i couldnt get her off my mind, i still loved her, so after two months, i contacted her again, only to listen to foul language, and a threat from some relative of hers....

i never tried to harm her in any way, nor did i have any bad intentions about her from the start,... but i dont know why did she treat me like this.....

i still love her.... just tell me guys, what should i do to get her outta my mind, ??? please i'll be grateful, coz im losing my senses for her.....

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  • Anywho

    From a female point of view, you got too close. She doesn't want you. If you told her you love her, thats why she started to ignore you. Girls, I can't speak for all of them but probably all the girls and GUYS I know, hate to reject anyone, as much as they hate to be rejected. If a guy I didn't want to be with told me he loved me I'd disappear and hope his feelings faded (or at least he'd learn to keep them to himself, hello, take a hint). Take the relatives with a grain of salt, they only know one side of the story.

    Meanwhile, you can't help who you love. You'll probably love her forever. Thats fine, just understand, TRUE LOVE is wanting a person to be happy, even if you can't be the source of that happiness. So wish her well and move on. You'll be the better person for it.

    Good luck to you, I hope you find the reciprocated variety, its much nicer. :)

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Take up a new hobby. I like powerdumping in my pants

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  • CountryRoads

    Instead of rejecting men flat out and being mean about it, I'll hint and then eventually ignore them. I hate when men try over and over again, when I'm just not interested. The worst thing you can do is keep trying.
    Give her space. You're probably annoying the bejesus out of her, even if you have good intentions.

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  • beautiful_dreamer

    Wow, as a female myself, I have to say that girl was a bitch to you. I realise she didn't like you, but there's no need for her to threaten or insult you. She could have been a lot nicer and let you know she just wasn't interested and leave it as that. *sigh* Regardless...

    Thee exact thing had happened to me, but coming from the other side. I knew a guy in high school who was an angel to me. Always said good morning, offered to buy me lunch, would help me study. He was the kind of guy most girls would love to date, if they weren't attracted to assholes. Plus, he wasn't bad looking, if not a bit on the nerdy side.

    Sadly, he was Straight and I was Asexual. I would have loved to keep him strictly as a friend, but knowing he was truly in love with me, would just make things worse for us both. So we had to part. I still think of him, and pray he found someone who can give him the love he was looking for.

    Keep your chin up, there's a whole sea of lovely young ladies out there who might searching for someone like you. :)

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  • timebobbu

    playing hard to get is she? uh la la

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  • Havoc8463

    The road to hell is paved with good intentions. You should be hearing alarm bells ringing when she ignores your advances, that's the time to back off and seriously consider wether you believe you have any chance with her. I know it's easy for me to sound logical and arrogant in this situation but chin up, it's one of life's little horror stories we all have to go through

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  • Your just not the one for her.

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  • Divine.Infekt

    Meet new girls.
    You cant force someone to like you, unfortunatly.
    Shes old news, she doesnt like you, you have to face the fact.
    You seem like a sweet guy, you deserve someone who will respect you.

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  • RedAngelfire70

    I agree with the above comment. Saying to a girl that you love her before she's given you any reason that she feels the same way will almost always push a girl away. So, you lost your chance with this one. It happens. Just learn from it and move on.

    You seem like a nice, sensitive guy. Be careful with that. It's good when you're in a relationship, but doesn't tend to work when you want to catch a girlfriend. Girls tend to like aggressive or apathetic personalities...which is why girls fall for assholes. But things normally work out well if the guy is secretly a sensitive, loving guy.

    So basically, don't show too much emotion. Women don't like that in a guy. Not at first, anyways.

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    • *Larson*

      ^^^^^
      Lol red your comment and the thing that stood out was your bit about girls falling for assholes.

      I have to ask a question on that. If girls fall for them knowlingly and get drawn to aggressive or apathetic personalities why moan when they mess you about or leave you? And why then go for another asshole? lol

      Not taking this piss here but i would honestly like to know what it is about it please :)

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  • BirdyMojo

    I think you should try to meet other girls. I'm sorry things didn't work out, you sound amazing, it's her loss. Good luck dude :)

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  • leahquestions

    it's hard to love someone who doesn't love you but if they don't want you then that's it-- find another

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  • kingofthedust

    No offense but you seem a bit creepy and obsessive.

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