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Who has more insecurities in sexual sphere and lower sexual self-esteem? Men or women?
I mean that the person worries about not being a good sexual partner, feels insufficient in bed, doubts their sexual skills, thinks that other people of their own gender are better at sex, more skillful at various sexual activities etc.
| men (I´m male) | 88 | |
| women (I´m male) | 54 | |
| men (I´m female) | 22 | |
| women (I´m female) | 78 |
I worry more about if he's looking at my thighs jiggle, or if I look fat today :/
I'm a guy. I didn't vote because, I know men and women equally that feel this way.
The girl I was with who was most sexually confident, and to be honest, was the most awesome sex I ever had, was what my friends called "a curvy chick"
Her thighs definitely jiggled, and they were awesome! She just jiggled her tits and I didn't really care about anything else. Anyway, I liked the feel of curvy, jiggling flesh doing nothing but pleasing me!
And I have had loads of different types of women. Some I have even paid for, and they were total supermodel types.
The best sex I ever had, and the most competent and confident girls had one thing in common. They were not rake thin, and had what the fashion mags would call "flaws", but I thought were amazing.
I guess that the person who gets refused more often, who has to initiate sexual activity more often with the risk of being refused, who has to do more and be more active during the sexual activity. The person who can feel that he is disposable and there are countless other people of his own gender who could be willing to do the job and probably better at doing it. Which gender am I writing about? Check the pronouns in the previous sentence and it will be clear.
You're trying to make people think? How dare you!
...though i AM curious as to how may people know what a pronoun is.
Women do of course! Men can go around sleeping with 100 women and they say he is a stud. In some culture and religion a man can have 100 women he can marry that must do whatever he says. If a women sleeps with one man before she is married she is often seen as a harlot. I think this might be partially do to the fact women carry so is to discourage pregnancy. A burden men will never have to deal with.
my x was a very relaxed and caring partner sexual uninhibited and at the time iwas happy and felt lucky to find someone who was not uptight but we broke up and she really started acting out sexually and now i feel bad and like i messed her up. so i dont know how ifeel about being a little uptight about sex now, maybe it's good in a way