Low self asteem

Whenever I ask my friends if I'm pretty they always tell tell me very or are you kidding me your so pretty everybody likes u but me, and I feel good for a while but then I always end up comparing myself to others like saying oh she gets all the guys, she has the best hair but never thinking about myself please and I mean please comment

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  • jitterbug66

    I remember my middle school days too.
    I think you should compare yourself to ugly girls to make yourself feel good.

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  • Wüstenfuchs

    It's normal for meee. I have horrid self-esteem. I get irritable if someone compliments me, because I, in no way, deserve it or agree with it. Compliments depress me and make me feel even worse about myself. :/

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  • theworldsfuked

    totally normal that's sometimes how i think, though i try not to think that way, I made up a little saying for myself to try and make me feel better when feeling glum: everyone is unique and pretty in their own different way, if everyone looked the same then no one would be unique or (good looking ) people have different eye, hair colours, lengths, body shapes, sizes, noses,shades, skin tones and its just so interesting noticing them all, it doesn't mean there any better than you, you'll have your "own" look , you are one of those cute little unique people in the world :D

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  • RapidlyRotatingPanda

    It's the media maaannnn!!
    No but seriously, you can't change how you look (apart from losing weight or facial reconstruction...) so you might as well accept it, because confidence is a very appealing thing.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    No that isn't normal and can't believe people have said it is. Low self esteem is NOT normal. Average IS since the word 'average' clearly connotates normal.
    It is normal to have down days. Of course some days I look in the mirror with disgust. But most of the time I can look in the mirror fine. It's normal if you think like this every now and again. However, it is not normal if you have felt this everyday for about 3 months and it occupies your thoughts all the time.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    How can we say without seeing a pic first? Or try Hot Or Not.

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  • lolwhat12

    I have the same feelings about myself.

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