Loving someone who doesn't give a shit?

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I've been in love with this girl for quite a long time. She seemed to be attracted to me, but she lives a way of life I can't understand. One day I was with her and she was all over me, I went to get a drink and there she was kissing another dude. I think she exaggerates the meaning of living the moment or something. But I just can't stop liking her. And on top of that I am doomed to be with her every day making it difficult to forget her. She sits next to me at school and I just feel happy when I talk to her. I am working hard on forgetting her. We have never gotten to be a couple, so am I exaggerating and being a pussy?

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  • ThePudgyOne
    14 years ago

    Ah, the rebellious type. Lol I know that type and I'd say push her back and tell her. Use the same force as she is to you but don't be a damn pushover.

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  • Devindd
    14 years ago

    Dude, I'm in that same situation, it's like all of the other girls in my school like me, except for her. And I also want to forget Bout her. She is used to boys being all over her and trying to touch her And asking her out to movies. But I try to be diffrent and give her space. But when that happens i end up losing a friendship with her. Kinda complicated

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  • SweetAdeline
    14 years ago

    No, you're not being a "pussy," you're being a man. Men want what they can't have and the very fact this girl seems disinterested or unattainable, makes you want her even more. The fact is, if she started showing interest in you and considered you her "one and only," you'd probably be asking "is it normal" that you want to dump her after pursiing her for so long.

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  • AskYourDoctorAboutLyrica
    6 years ago

    There is a song called Self esteem by the offspring. You remind me of the guy in the song,you should listen to it and tell me what you think

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  • Sensate
    11 years ago

    This is normal. You should just tell her how you feel about her. The problem is that you like her but you don't know if she likes you in the same way. Another problem is that if she actually likes you, but she cant commit to a relationship (read as: can't keep her hands off other guys), you won't be able to handle it.
    Comes down to and ego problem that occurs because you are unsure.

    It's easy to plaster this over with a quick "do or dump her ass". But the reality is that your friendship might be ruined forever if you tell her but things go sideways. Which only makes the choice harder.

    I've had to say goodbye to some girls who I just liked too much. No matter how good our friendship, no matter how much we trusted eachother. If she doesnt see me that way or there are other reasons you can't have a relationship you're often times doomed. Because I can't help it that I will feel like shit when I see her with another guy.

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  • billyboy
    12 years ago

    happens a LOT. i have done it a lot in my time. it is just life and normal. wish it was otherwise tho.

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  • halflifeparadox
    14 years ago

    thanks for the posts people :D

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    obviously she isn't sincere about anybody, even you. i doubt this is the type of girlfriend you want. better get over he now, before you really fall in love.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Maybe she's a hippie o_o

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