Love your bf and still think about girls? iin?

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I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months but sometimes I can't help but think about what it would be like to be with another girl, just for one night. Im 18 and have never actually done anything with other girls (besides drunk kissing) and although I am completely head over heals for my boyfriend, he treats me like a princess and it always there for me, but the very thought of kissing and touching another girl makes me so aroused and I feel bad about it because I would never throw away the love i have just to fulfill these secret desires.... what should i do? just ignore the urges and continue being happy with my boyfriend, or take a risk and ruin everything....

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Dont cheat on your boyfriend as some of the posts suggested.

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  • b454
    13 years ago

    Very normal. I'm married and think about women all the time. I know what I'm missing though. I just watch some lesbo porn and I'm good to go

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Tell ur bf. He may be open to having a threesome or lettingnu try it

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  • BarNGrill
    13 years ago

    Go have your girlfriend fix and see how you like it. Nothing wrong with that. If you then want to tell him, you will. If you don't, then don't. Your girlfiend could teach your boyfriend how to make you even come harder.

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  • psychobabble
    13 years ago

    I've been having those same feelings for a long time now! I told my husband about it and he's all for it....but only if he can at least watch if not join in. I think it's very normal and you should mention it to your boyfriend. If he freaks out maybe he's isn't the right man for you anyway. Ya know? If you live in Cali, we could always hook up! ;)

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  • superorc
    13 years ago

    talk to him about haveing a threesome and if he sends yes then u find out

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  • babykev
    13 years ago

    i wish u were my gf :(
    cud get all ur lady friends round i wudnt mind ;)

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  • InfectedSunshine
    13 years ago

    don't worry, what you're experiencing is completely normal. just have a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend about it and if he really cares about you, he'll understand and try to work something out with you...

    if that doesn't work, you could always just masturbate while thinking of girls. or you could break up with him... whichever you think would make you happiest.

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