Love your best friend...

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Ok so im in love with my best friend.. and he sayd he likes me back but now he is saying, i dont wanna hurt you and that he isnt doog in relationships.. and every girl he has dated never lasts long :/ i want him to be all mine because i love him.. i seriously have never felt this way about a guy, and i dont wanna loose him, i know he is the one because i have been friends with him threw thick and thin, ya know? please give me advice i seriously want to marry this guy..

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  • LostinU
    12 years ago

    you go on and hold on him if he really deserves, and try to obey him as much as you can to prevent problems which may let you guys broke up ..

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  • Somone
    13 years ago

    well then it's a chance you'll have to take.. but if he really loves you and he is smart enough there's no reason why enyone should be hurt..

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  • chucho
    13 years ago

    ill try!! idk.. its like he knows hes gonna hurt me, cause he can never keep a girl friend, idk.. all i know is that i love him..

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  • Somone
    13 years ago

    but if you both want to be together as more than friends, then you should!!! and if he says that he doesn't wanna hurt you then there's no reason to think he would hurt you! you should give it a try i mean if you both care about each other that much then there's no reason to think you would do anything to hurt each other and if it doesn't work out then you should be able to end up in good terms and be friends again.. maybe not as friends as you were before maybe yes idk.. and think about it maybe YOU are the reason why his other relationships didn't work out! (you should say all this things to him, maybe you'll talk him into it ;))

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  • chucho
    13 years ago

    but what if he get girl friends...

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  • bdbdbd
    13 years ago

    SAME things happening to me, except we came to the understanding that we're better off as friends since i love how we are right now. If you love him right now and he loves you back and you guys are happy as it is, why bother changing anything? Being a couple is simply a label, you don't necessarily have to be dating someone to make it official or to show affection towards each other, al though it IS a lot more socially accepted.

    All i can say is, be smart because i know a lot of good friends who have dated and have lost their best friends due to their label. We've been this way for a year now and i'm unsure of what the future hold with us, but all i know is that i'm extremely happy like we are now, and he's still my best friend and the person i love more than any one with no strings attached.

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  • chucho
    13 years ago

    he says he doesnt want to hurt me, but he has thought about marrying me and all this.. and i just dont want him to like movce on.. i want ihm and only him

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  • chucho
    13 years ago

    haha! we are nine teen, and he is still a "player" 'can get any girl!!' type guy..

    and rogerPfieifer, you crack me up!! ill try my best ;)

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  • RogerPfeifer
    13 years ago

    Ok here's what you do:

    1. Kidnap him
    2. Keep him in your basement for at least 3 months. Whenever he complains, keep him in the refrigerator until he quiets down
    3. Once you've completely subdued him, make him listen to a recording of your voice saying "I am god"
    4. After he has listened to the recording for at least a year, he will be brainwashed
    5. Marry him! He will totally want to marry you now that you've brainwashed him!

    You're welcome!

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  • yayasaga
    13 years ago

    How old are you guys?

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