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Which idea of a relationship seems worse to you?
A relationship in which the partners love each other deeply but have no sex together or a relationship in which the partners have good sex together but don´t love each other?
| deep love without sex is worse (I´m female) | 10 | |
| good sex without love is worse (I´m female) | 33 | |
| deep love without sex is worse (I´m male) | 13 | |
| good sex without love is worse (I´m male) | 27 |
They both seem bad for different reasons. There are other ways to show that you like someone besides an orgasm. As for the other relationship, it sounds pretty casual, which isn't bad.
Both suck, but in the long run, in a relationship that's meant to last 30+ years, I think life would be more satisfying to have love over sex.
I have two hands and a vibrator. Not exactly a substitute but they've all gotten me through some pretty dry spells. I would rather be with someone who loves me and values me then someone who will pleasure my vagoo and leave my ass in the dust.
For all I know, one of these days, I'll be too old and fucking fat to be able to find my vagina anyway.
I've been in both situations and I would rather have love without sex. Sex without love can be fun for a little while, but it's ultimately an empty experience. I'm a relationships girl and I like knowing that when I wake up in the morning, the person I love will be there, even if we can't make love for some reason.
I've already done the "good sex without love" and it's pretty horrible I ended up getting really hurt
You made that tricky to answer! You should have just put :Love it more important or :Sex is more important lol