Love my maybe- straight best friend

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I have been best friends with this guy for about two years now. We have a lot in common and relate to each other in many ways. Then, about a year ago I started to realize I was bisexual, and I have loved him ever since. I am afraid to tell him because I dont want to ruin our friendship. I am really confused though because a part of me thinks he is sending me signs, and another part of me thinks its just me being desperate for him. He sometimes moons me and I always get really stiff when he does. A couple months ago we held out our penis's to compare the sizes and I could barely control it then. We also usually sleep in the same bed and I always want to cuddle, but sometimes he rejects me. You have no idea how much i love my best friend, but im worried that if i blow it (not literally ) than it could ruin our friendship and that is the last thing i want.

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  • pegger
    12 years ago

    gold fish has a good answer if hes measuring dicks with you tho seems like it might be signs that he wants experiment

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  • Gold_Fish
    12 years ago

    If you bring it up, be serious. You don't want to live having an idea how he would react but him never knowing he already did.

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  • NormalTeen32
    6 years ago

    Okay GoldFish... I have the same problem. I'm 15 have hit puberty but my friend is just 13 and hasn't even got close to it, not sure if that has anything to do with it, you know, maybe we are attracted to our very best friend because of their girly qualities? But my friend and I are VERY close, we've never compared penises, but I know how big his is since we often change in the same room or shower with the door open. Anyways, we love each other and I really love him and just want to have sex with him. But I fear if I tell him it will ruin our friendship and I can't live without my friend. He basically lives at my house during the summer. Usually when we sleep (in the same bed), he always ends up pinning me against the wall, forcing me to cuddle and or spoon him. I don't know if it's intentional but I've tried to run with it and go ahead and pull his shorts down and get with it but he usually either wakes up and pulls them up, or he scoots closer and makes random high pitched noises( rarely),or just acts like he's asleep... Which he might be, but I doubt someone can sleep through that as I often finger him once I get his shorts down or through his shorts... I love him SO MUCH... Maybe you could help me and I could help you???

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  • partofeveryone
    12 years ago

    Bring it up, casually or as a joke. See how he reacts

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  • pegger
    12 years ago

    im in sorta the same situation iv got a mate like this we joke about sucking each other off an i pretended to do it one night while he was driving an he proper pushed my head down closer to his crotch. i know this dont help just lettin you know your not alone :)

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    • michael5766
      12 years ago

      it really sucks i just want a way to act on it sexually but not risk ruining our friendship.
      Same person different account

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    No offense dude, but your friend sounds pretty gay to me. I don't know many straight men that will whip out their dicks for their buddies to compare sizes. Try to sneak it into some casual conversation and see how he reacts.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Well I dont know about anyone else but we are constantly having dick comparison contests in my office. And I always win.

      The competition is for who has the smallest one FYI.

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        12 years ago

        Shit, well, I'd lose :D

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        • [Old Memory]
          12 years ago

          Nobody beats me, have to be honest and say it hasnt done much for my dating life, but at least I am winning at something.

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          • NeuroNeptunian
            12 years ago

            You should probably quit whipping your dick out on the first date. Can't be a showstopper without a show.

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            • [Old Memory]
              12 years ago

              Yeh but at least it makes me memorable. For the rest of her life that girl is gonna be asked what was the worst date she has ever been on, and the story that follows will be have me as the main character.

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