Love is killing me

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So for some reason i met this girl, we got this chemistry, like we really get each other, we understand our emotions and we like so many similar things and hate others. So we felt in love and everything was perfect until she decided to tell me about someone else who she had been in the past. After she revealed her past relationship. which was the kind of relationship that isn't seriously at all, They just slept like to satisfy their needs, I felt this anger inside, this great sadness in me, this pain that is killing me right now, I love her so much that i don't know what to do. What to change, Im so grateful she told me but i feel so hurt inside, i don't know what to do. What should I do?

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  • bmarnis0
    13 years ago

    i understand, your probably really sensitive which is great especially for relationships. my advice, if she makes you happy stay with her and eventually you'll forget about this. maybe even tell her how you feel, and the fact that she told you is a good sign because it means she cares enough about you to tell you the truth. the truth hurts but lies and secrets kill.

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  • ItalianStallion
    13 years ago

    If u dwell on the past ull never get to the future...I feel what ur sayin I've been there myself but if there's one thing I've learned is that u gta leave the past behind...just b greatful she had the decency to tell u bout it

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    • orellanco
      13 years ago

      Hey thanks a lot, and you know what?
      you are so right.thanks

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  • andreth
    8 years ago

    So normal it has a word for it: Jealousy.
    The toughts and feelings (anger, sadness, insecurity, disgust, resentment...) you have when you percieve yourself to be in danger of loosing something very precious to you - human connection. You feel it to be so fragile (or yourself so inadequate) that even the mention of her being with someone else in the past makes you feel this way.
    What you should do is trust her, have faith in her. Seems that being an honest and sincere person she might deserve it.

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  • andyzx1
    13 years ago

    do you think it will actually kill you or do you think you will get over it before you die, so we know if we're gonna need a doctor or mortician you know jk

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  • TheForbiddenHottie
    13 years ago

    its not normal..
    get over it

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  • frank_tarifa
    13 years ago

    Yeee I actually had/ve the same feeling, it's just thinking on your love with other guy....you just get angry and sad and lots of negative thoughts.... You just have to deal with it and accept it

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    • orellanco
      13 years ago

      thanks for your opinion

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  • cinnalife
    13 years ago

    Everyone has a past. You can't change it so why dwell on it? Concentrate on the present and be thankful she's with you now & not the other guy!

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    • orellanco
      13 years ago

      thanks man. i thought about it and as you say everyone has a past, i just got to forget about that, thanks

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ugh i dont like this type of story they make it sound like a story with things like *a great sadness took over me* im guessing ur about 16-18 ugh

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    • orellanco
      13 years ago

      im 20

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  • follow_me_down
    13 years ago

    It is really hard to forgive someone's past. Take ItalianStallion's advice and try to not dwell on it.
    The sadness you feel is probably the insecurity that you could be like that past relationship to her now.
    Try to concentrate on the fact that she is a different person now. We all have things we have done that we regret. Try to not hold hers against her.

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    • orellanco
      13 years ago

      Hey thank you for your great opinion. thanks for your advice

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