Love, distance and effort.

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I recently fell in love with a girl who was moving away (1 1/2 drive I don't think it's that far) and although we had hooked up before she moved and have seen each other at least once a week since(it's been about a month) she's not sure she wants to start anything because of the distance and she's never really had a serious boyfriend before, I'm crazy about her And I think about her all the time, I surprised her on valentines day with a picnic and flowers. I make her gifts and when we speak it's great. But if I ever ask her what we are she gets upset and confused :( shes told me she likes me she just doesn't know how she feels she's always been alone.
I guess what I'm asking is, do you think I'm wasting my time here? Has anyone else had this happen? And am I going about this the right way? Is it normal to feel this way?

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Based on 37 votes (33 yes)
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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Try being a queer. There are plenty of those around.

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  • fishy4swimming
    13 years ago

    She's just worried because she's never been in a serious relationship. Give her time to get used to the idea :) if you truly are crazy about her, then it's not a waste of time

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  • lildc305
    13 years ago

    Dude keep at it and yes I have had that happen and now me and her have been dating for about a year

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    You're not wasting your time, if you're crazy about her it's worth it!

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  • ChelseaSailor
    13 years ago

    Just give her time. She should appreciate how much you care. :)

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