Love at first sight

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In facebook, there's one guy added me. He's named begins with K. And we chatted. I saw his pictures and he's not handsome at all. but i immediately like him. I was not like this before. I never been like this. He's fat and not handsome. The problem is he already have a girlfriend. and they've been together quite for a long time. I am a very shy girl. I didnt even ask for his number. Please i need an advise. i mean like this is like love at first sight. I never feel like this. i felt sooo jealous everytime i saw his picture with his girlfriend. Im just 18. i always thinking that i need to achieve my dream to be a doctor first. but now im having a long holiday. so, i have so many free times. and i always thought about him./ what should i do?

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    He has a girlfriend. I think it would be best if you leave him alone. At least don't try to come between him and the girl. And yes, I know. It sucks, but what's right is right. And you should never mess with a guy who has a girl. You wouldn't want someone to do that to you. Would you? But love at first sight...normal? Probably in your case...no. Just lust.

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  • Proud_of_my_ancestry
    13 years ago

    Since, you are shy and all. It seems like it's easier to fall for someone you never met. hehe, I'm very shy myself. (also 18) Since well, at first it probably seemed like he was interested in you. And yes, this has been said over and over. You will not know a person unless you get to know them in person.

    That said, I also chatted with a person from the other side of the world. I also had a phase were I had a 'feeling' like I never had before. That feeling was a little painful and great at the same time. Anyway, after those 3 monthes. Our communication went a little down hill. I still like him, and think about him. But, not to the same extent as before.

    No matter how advanced our technology will become, it will never replace actual communication.

    I'm sorry, but the best thing you can do it except the fact that you may never actually meet that person. I advise to slowly 'detach' from him. Maybe not completely, un-friend him from Facebook. But, just accept the reality. It will hurt, but it's something you have to do. So, it will not hurt longer.

    Anyway, (like I said) I'm also a bit shy and lonely in real-life. So sometimes I will tell myself that I will 'never' find myself a decent boy. I can tell myself, whatever but time will tell.
    good luck.

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    • diana35
      13 years ago

      hey. thanks for the advise. i do think like that. but it's just so hard. everytime i sign in my facebook account, i will look at his facebook. but then, i've been thinking lately . i really want to be a doctor. and i have to focus. however, yesterday he sent me a message in facebook and it was really fun chatting with him. and he asked for my phone number in casif he wants to hang out wiht me or something. i felt so happy but at the same time it hurts because he got a girlfriend. maybe i just have to forget about it right? We,, thanks again.:)

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  • themotoman
    12 years ago

    Well since I get the feeling you have never met him because it was over Facebook I think it is stupid... I say delete him as a friend and move on, I'm sure you can do better. He has a girlfriend already anyways so i'm sure he isn't interested. Good luck.

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  • 1sickdudes
    12 years ago

    I fell in love with mine when i heard her name i dint see her for a day then when i saw her i felt even more in love with her i nearly fainted, SERIOUSLY!

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  • diana35
    13 years ago

    i think what u guys said are very true. im starting to calm myself and i feel better. and lydizzy1234, yeah its juat lust. hahaha. thanks again guys!:)!

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  • Storm
    13 years ago

    don't give up your dreams on being a doctor, especially for a guy you haven't met that has a girlfriend! and you shouldn't try to come between him and the other girl, they could be happy together. Just go slow, and be friends, then see what happens :)

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  • GIR101
    13 years ago

    it's normal. maybe you like his personality. :)

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  • RentingEmotion
    13 years ago

    You like him because you don't have the intimidation of talking to him in person... & also, personality enhances looks.

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