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When you fall in love with someone, which scenario is more typical of you: sexual desire for that person comes first and then it is followed by romantic feelings / emotions associated with love OR does it start with emotions of love and later you start to feel sexual desire for that person?
| I am male - it starts with sexual desire | 12 | |
| I am male - it starts with love | 12 | |
| I am female - it starts with sexual desire | 19 | |
| I am female - it starts with love | 9 |
There's no set pattern for me. They both increase over time and, although I don't tend to sleep with someone until I have feelings for them, it doesn't mean I'm not fantasising.
Lust comes first. Then come the feelings, if any. The weird thing is I always know whether I'm gonna fuck someone or not when I first see them, whereas when I fall in love with someone it's like somebody smacked me on the head cause I usually know them for a while and yet I've never seen it coming.
When I first see a girl, I automatically imagine her naked, it's just something that automatically happens with me but I don't date chicks who are just straight DTF, I want a chick who I can be with and cuddle and confide in and love and kiss and just be with without sex, sex is a further down the line for me kind of thing.
More females for sexual desire than I thought there would be... Times are a changin!
All males who said love are liars and apparently females are more honest lol
I am male - neither.
I don't love anyone and don't desire anyone sexually.
I don't know if falling in love would cause me to desire someone sexually since that hasn't happened to me. Nothing seems capable of upsetting my emotional balance at this stage of my life.