Love and hate your bf.

My friends and I think my bf has personality disorder or something. When we fight it's always my fault and he makes me feel like it is. He gets mad when I hang out with my friends that are boys. He acts like a douche in front of his friends around me. He gets mad when I don't want to drink alcohol. Anyways my friends want me out of this relationship and in a way I do too, but don't. We got into a fight last week and he started throwing things and it scared me. Is it normal to want to be with him and then to want to leave at the same time?

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Based on 34 votes (23 yes)
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  • Corleone

    Leave him. don't date a guy out of fear. No way this relationship will ever lead somewhere, you're better off on your own. You can always meet someone else.

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  • Fiaaa167

    It is the early stages of him trying to control you, if you leave it any longer he will start hitting you and not just throwing things, leave him and do it the easiest way possible so that he wont get angry.. goodluck!

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  • jensapa

    I can relate totally but its unhealthy an toxic. Leave him before he really hurts u. Trust me I've been there.

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  • Love and hate don't go together. You should leave him, you don't need a kid to tell you what to do and blame you for everything. He's just going to get worse with time until you do as he wants.

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