Lots of flirting, zero results

Lots of women have flirted with me as we've spent time together (at school and then work). But as soon as I try to get serious with them, they would stop talking to me. Is it normal that I scare off women or are they teasing me?

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  • IMissMary

    They flirt for their own ego. You bite they get the affirmation they need, you are the unwilling Patsy being played to help them inflate their own ego.

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    • LittleGirlInexorablySodomized

      That must the reason women want what they cannot have.

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      • IMissMary

        Yes

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    • Holzman_67

      I think this is true in many cases

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  • Holzman_67

    Women don't know what they want and we don't know what they want and wanting what they want makes what they want less wanted.

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  • GrumbleCakes

    Eh, I haven't been wingle in a long while; but I remember the sort of women youare talking about. If they're the kind of girls you're looking for you'll have to play the game to get to them: light backhanded compliments, spreading your focus to girls around them, move into some silly excuse for touching their hand or some other innocent touch to bare skin. They go out, they flirt, they find you interesting; BUT, in their heads they aren't looking for anything. To get to them you have to be patient and make them interested in you, and let them know you aren't purely invested in them and they need to work for your attentiom. Never let them know that's what you're doing, and don't make them feel like a piece in a game; because that will shut things down instantly. They don't do it to insult you, a lot of womej just aren't looking to hook up or go out with strangers, so you have to be interesting to them to get their attention.

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  • snarkygirl

    I sometimes flirt with guys I have no interest in just to be nice.

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  • michelle2451

    You could be mistaking kindness for flirting.

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  • flyingnostalgia

    Maybe its due to your impigrity

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    • thegypsysailor

      ??????????????????????????????????????/

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      • CountessDouche

        Lol...that's actually a word, but it's really weird that someone would use it. It's archaic language, and it's probably not even in most modern dictionaries, but it's derived from a Latin word that's best translated as...expedience or maybe haste, depending on the context.

        I've never in my life seen someone actually USE that word though. Fucking odd.

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        • thegypsysailor

          I googled it to no avail. Thanks for the definition.

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          • CountessDouche

            Haha. No problem...like I said, it's essentially a dead word. Archaic language like that can't even be translated appropriately to English. Impigritatem translates weird...it means "quickness" but usually with a negative connotation, although it can sometimes be neutral or positive, but rarely. Anyways, I don't know why someone would use it, unless they were trying to be obscure or edgy...

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            • green_boogers

              Suppose we say, "sell the sizzle, not the steak". Maybe she wants it medium-rare, or maybe well done. Taking the steak off the grill too early would be the kind of negative impigritious quickness that is implied by the Latin, right?

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