Loss of emotion

Once you find a girl that you REALLY like, your emotions will be restored

Watch the movie Ghost of Girlfriends past.

I've had similar problems. First off the bat, ignore Trismegistus, he's a prick. I have a friend with several hefty emotional issues, and he's done much better since he's gotten help. Secondly, as long as you're not self-harming as an attempt at suicide, you're fine. I myself cut my arms for a year, but never around the wrist. I had a few family... incidents, a few deaths, a few near deaths, within a couple of years, and it messed with my head. My advice, talk to a friend, one who's gone through this sort of thing. If there isn't anyone, then, and I know that this sounds cliche, but read a bible. I don't know whether it'll help you, but when I was in a dark place with no one to pull me out, it really saved me.
Take my advice, don't, whatever, but please try to help yourself.

Its a great choice.

It's normal , but it's jst a stage, u cannot let it become a part of u. U want a connection w/ her, bt cuz u can't let's hav sum random connections that' ll numb the longing and thinking about how it was btwn u both... We all selfdestruct after we lose our direction and passion...Aknowledge the source of dis pain, and eliminate it, it won't b easy

it's normal, I think I understand it

Yeah, being hurt certainly changes you, takes time and it does heal, although I think what you need is closure? something that can help you say right I'm over them, I feel like the adult here because they were so childish about it and why should I let what happend ruin my life?, you have to want to change aswell, I felt exactly like you, when I broke up with my ex I suffered for about 8 months to find a way to shut her out and I felt that talking to her again and argueing and telling her what she has done and how she has made me feel helped, it's never gunna be great until you find someone new and you're ready to be happy again

I'll shut up now :), hope this helps..

i'm going thorugh a simmilar phase, the fact that you wonder about the loss of attachment means that your real you is still in there, if not you wouldn't even worry about that stuff. Give yourself some time, you just need some good event in your life to regain optimism. Your friends will also understand it if you talk to them and tell them what you're going through. That's experience talking. Hope it's useful.