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Conventional wisdom has it that the first time is not very good. True for you? How old were you? Location? Position? Details?
| First time sucked | 27 | |
| First time was great! | 25 | |
| Haven't had my first time yet | 47 |
My first time lasted forever and I actually "faked it" just to get it over with.
You tend to build up this idea in your head that your first time will be amazing and angels will descend from heaven, singing in choir and giving you high-fives.
It's not.
It felt like I was floating above my body, looking down as if it was not me doing it.
I was 23-ish
First time sucked. Second time sucked. Third time sucked...I felt cheated. between everyone saying sex is the bomb and my sex freak of a best friend saying how great it was when he lost his virginity, I was ready to have my mind blown...Then it happened I was disapointed. I could perform, I did for a very long time. I know everyone says it goes on for ages when it's really like half an hour or something but my first time went on for hours (about two and a half) and that even shocked me when she pointed it out to me.
We done foreplay, multiple positions, oral, and so on, and yet I couldn't get off on it. It was boring, I had little to no physical pleasure from it. I remember when she gave oral I was laying there thinking "Just hurry up and get this over with" due to how crap the feeling was. I wished this would of just been the case with my first time but it wasn't. I can't really enjoy sex. I can perform it, no genital issues or anything but I get very little out of it.
Hell, I got more pleasure out of the times I've masturbated.
So was it no good? Yes, it was no good. Has it ever been? Nope.
I think I need to add some new things in to it, more extreme things, because the act of sex itself is boring and I get nothing out of it which really does suck and let to me just having sex with people just to try and see if I just experienced sex with the wrong people, but not found one it's different with yet.
I think you're reeeally gonna have to like the person if you ever want to enjoy it. I would hold out on it until you meet that person. Otherwise, it's going to feel like you're shoving your dick into a wall.
I did like the person I lost my virginity to. I wasn't head over heels for her (which is a weird mental image given the context 0_0) but I liked her as a friend. I still felt pretty much no enjoyment from it.
I think I'd be best suited to some BDSM stuff or something where I don't actually do the sexual acts and use other methods moreso. I should give it a try at some point.
Ahh. Still, I'd like to emphasize the 'reeeeally' and also now agree about bdsm. I think you have a very specific type that you'll have a hard time finding. It's definitely out there for you, though. I mean it. You're going to meet someone you click with and enjoy more than sex.
*snickers* Head over heels... =>
16,5 and I sort of just wanted to get it done so I was eager to do it with the first best guy. Don't regret a thing even though he was weird but yeah it hurt and it was just ... not good sex xD
First time was nice. It wasn't awkward or anything because the both of us wanted to and we knew we were going to spend our whole life together. I gotta say, when it is someone you have that strong of feeling towards your emotions wrestle all in together and the moment is truly wonderful :)
Hope this helps!
I almost tried once. It was awkward, we could not get in the right positions, It was just not comfortable. I guess that is more of an attempt but yeah.. It was not great.
My first time was amazing. Though it was with a girl (as am I). I'm sure I'll get shit for this, but it's kinda true that it's usually the guy's fault when the female has a shitty time, because they don't take enough time to properly stretch and prepare them.
I'm waiting to lose my virginity to this guy at this point I just want to experience it with him and only him, I'm always horny these days it's ridiculous. I want to be touched and adored. Waiting for marriage would be ideal but you know when you know it's time you know.
I don't know, is it? I was raped during what was allegedly my first time even though no intercourse occurred.
It was fun, really. It wasn't out-of-this-world, but it definitely wasn't bad.
My first time with a girl was awesome, though cramped in a car. she was experienced and guided me well, the only slight iffyness was that she didn't want me to cum inside her so I had to pull out and shoot my load on to her belly.
The first guy to fuck me was really good, we used plenty of vaseline as a lube and he very gently pushed his cock into my anus then gradually upped the pace of his thrusting, it was intense and so good. I came before him.
It was good for what it was. It was nice experiencing it with someone I really cared about, knowing that it was also special to her, sober and feeling completely ready. Sex is an emotion thing, the first time more than any time. It's not all dicks, vaginas, butts and mouths. I don't know if I'd say my first time was "good sex" in comparison to the sex I've had since that day, but sex is a different beast now with different objectives. My first time was all about taking care of each other and learning how to put the theory into practice. Not much else mattered.
It hurt, though I didnt bleed. Sex now with the same handsome man is much better. I recall doing a couple positions. On top being the most painful. It was 2 or 3 days after my 18th birthday. It was a good experience because it was shared with the guy I love.
My first time was wonderful in that it was with someone I loved and we had waited until I felt I was ready. But not so great in that I had always had a raging sex drive till going on the pill and even in about a week or so of being on the pill, which we planned beforehand, it reduced my sex drive...that was the only bad bit. And I didn't connect what it was until a couple years or so later...so dumb. And it hurt and continued to hurt each time we had sex for nearly a year...Am I the only who loves it when it hurts? The pain was so sweet...
Gosh, am I the only person who enjoyed their first time; it wasn't hugely special but it wasn't bad either.