Losing my mind after a breakup

ok listen I just got out of a bad relationship with my ex but I cant help but thinking about him he broke up with me and messed with my head alot and my mother will not allow me to talk to him or see him and so I dont but I use my other name on facebook with a picture that is not mine and we talk through that but he dosent know its me and I wanna keep it that way for now I hint him about me through this other girl he thinks hes talking to and he tells her shes sweet and very pretty but its really me on the other side I miss him and I know now he dosent want nothing to do with me beacuse he told this fake person that he dosent want me anymore and Im loosing it i wanna be with him more then anything i love him sooo much and miss him i need help what should i do should i tell him who he is really talking to :(

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  • newtdup

    do away with the fake person on FB, and before you do, tell him you still love him. Allow him the chance to see his mistake in letting you go. If he doesn't want you back, then, move on with life. I hope it turns out well for both of you.

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  • Sweetcat

    Life is a learning process, we all eventually experience the heartache & as horrible as it feels U need to move on. Give Urself some time to be alone, do other things.

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  • sherry

    Please stop and respect yourself. You can't believe he doesn't love you. It nearly killed me and it took 8 full years to get over it.hope you don't take as long.

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  • jimbobbig

    listen to your mother and move on. He hurt you big time. Forget this chapter and move on to new one. Learn from this bad experience. Good luck and all the happiness. Jim from England Wink Wink

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  • cinnalife

    You are now lying to him & if he finds out it's you, I'm sure he'll be mad, making matters worse. Make "this girl" disappear.

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  • supaflyafro

    seems to me he should take the advantage and bang the f*** outta u. lol jk. he doesnt want u and trust me ur gonan find sum1 else. ur thinking "I HEARD DAT LAME SH** B4!" oh yeah ur gonna find sum1 else and it could be a lot sooner than u think. here's my advice: dont look for love, let it find u. worked for me

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  • 8Serene8

    Yeah you really need to stop talking to him. It's only going to make it worse.

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  • November181992

    Answer mine?

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  • kaoginda

    It's normal to feel like your world has fallen apart after a break up. But there are many fish in the sea; don't feel like you've run out of options :) you'll get over it we all do ;)

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  • randomjelly

    Holy shit! You have GOT to knock that off!

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  • harrypotters

    All you are doing by creating a fake account is hurting yourself by keeping a connection with him. Nothing can come from this if he ever asks to meet what will you do? also if he find's out it is you some how you will creep him out a lot lol. So listen to your mother and others and move on you are only going to hurt yourself or do something you will regret if you keep this up. Try going out and sociolising more im sure you wil meet a nice guy to take your mind off him.

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  • koifish

    Gotta move on.

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