Losing best friends

Me and my three best friends have been really close for almost a year. Over the summer we practically lived together. Right when school started they stopped talking to me and running away from me whenever I try to.sit with them. We never got in a fight they just all left me and still hangout with eachother.. I think one said hi to me and that wwas it in the past 4 months

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  • Short4Words

    How old are you and what grade are you in?

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    • graceloves123

      16-sophmore

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  • Energy

    People are weird. Start finding some new friends.

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  • standbyme555

    That's so norma. People outgrow people they weren't very good friends if they just ditch you. Friends come in and out of your life. Find new ones

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    • graceloves123

      The thing is there was never a moment when we didn't like.one more than the other and they were tthe best friends I have ever had... I feel like one of their new friends thought I was weird and they dropped me.for popularity

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      • standbyme555

        That happens to everyone, I mean, you are in high school.

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  • lotsofstuff

    I had something like that happen to me. I have one best friend, she ditched me for some other freak. We didn't get in any fihgts, she just left. She has done this to me a lot. If you want to be good friends with someone, get even groups of number, 4 people, 6, 2, anything. Make new friends. Forget about those freaks. If they were really your true friend, they wouldn't of stabbed you in the back. Stay strong :) Remember I feel your pain. My bff ditched me today.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    This happened to me one point. However the difference is they just suddenly decided to treat me like shit for no reason. Thats just highschool for you. Try and make some new friends.

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  • coolio75650932

    it's worse to lose 3 friends than to gain 300 more...

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  • sissycakes

    this should not be normal, but it happens more often than you would think.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    So you don't know where they are.

    They must be good at hide and seek.

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    • graceloves123

      Uh what

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      • Terence_the_viking

        Losing best friends.

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  • rafaelicaro4

    I meet my best friend in middle school and still after 10 yrs we r still best friends .... So they are not your good friends to do that to you ! So move on and u will find true friends without asking for ! :)

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  • Shackleford96

    Maybe you weren't as good of friends as you thought you were. Like standbyme555 said, true friends wouldn't just dump you like that. It's not easy, I know, but you can find new friends who will treat you better.

    I was having the most difficult time accepting the loss (actually, it was more of just a gradual absence) of a friend quite a while back. We had been friends since elementary school and were friends all the way through middle and high school, and after that for a while too. We were like brothers almost.

    I don't know exactly why we grew apart, but we did. It could have been the distance we lived apart. It could have been that he started getting into drugs and we didn't have anything in common anymore. It could have been me for all I know. I don't know. I haven't heard from him in many months. Probably close to a year now or more.

    That doesn't matter to me anymore though. It took some time, but I have managed to get over it. Life moves on. You find new friends. I don't have a whole lot of friends, but I do know this couple that are pretty cool to hang out with. They even took me out to eat last night :)

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  • q25t

    That's not normal at all. Have you tried to force the issue with one of them? See what the problem actually is.

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    • graceloves123

      I have. they try to make it seem like theyre not doing anything

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