Lose virginity or to wait for marriage?

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I met this guy online and I cybered a lot on cam with him. I'm still virgin. He said he wants to have sex with me if he's coming to my city. At first, I said I want to wait until marriage, and he said it's okay. He won't have sex with me but just play naked together. Lately, after we cybered, he said he decided to have sex with me if he meets me.
I said ok, but actually I still doubt to do it, because I want to wait until marriage. In other side, I want him to touch me, but it means it can leads into sex. I also afraid that he would leave me after he takes my virginity. No, we're not in bf gf relationship. So, is it normal to lose virginity to stranger or should I wait for marriage?

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Based on 11 votes (4 yes)
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  • lc1988
    11 years ago

    That sounds like a rape waiting to happen.

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  • Ono
    11 years ago

    You should love your virginity when you're comfortable doing it.

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  • wigsplitz
    11 years ago

    When a guy says 'play naked together' he means he's going to put his penis in you. You're either going to get raped, or if he's not that kind of guy (which you won't know until it's too late!!) you'll spend the entire time fending him off because he won't stop trying to have sex with you.

    Don't meet him. It sounds like bad news no matter what happens. How do you know he doesn't do this to all the time?? This could be his occupation, getting girls to sleep with him, or meeting them and raping them, and disappearing.

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      yeah, like just let anything virginity wise happen when your ready, if he seems really adamant about hooking up, i'd distance myself from him

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  • Hajer92
    9 years ago

    be careful and think twice :D

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  • UnrecognizableMan
    11 years ago

    Bring a taser and keep your pants on.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Wait.
    Meeting him would just be asking for trouble.

    You're better off breaking all connections with him. He's no good for you.
    It also does sound like he's just planning a one-night stand.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Thank you for the advise. I was thinking to cut off my connection with him but still keep contact with him. I suppose to do it soon or I would be regret it.

      Also thanks for other comments :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Still a better love story than Twilight.

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