Looking at the outside not in

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I am a 17 year old girl. Puerto rican , sweet , funny, outgoing, smart, independent and sociable. I'm also loud and creative . I'm pretty but not dead ass gorgeous . I'm curvy but not huge or fat. I work two jobs and volunteer. Why is it that when I talk to customers or coworkers through text or im it's only sexual ? It's like they fall in love or lust with what is on the outside not inside , they do not get to know me at all .is this normal for a teenage girl to go through n what can I do to get thm see the real me?

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  • Misses-Jack-Sparrow
    12 years ago

    It sounds like your full of yourself! " I'm bla bla bla bla bla" from this it seems as if all u care about is what's on the outside!

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  • dolphin2525
    13 years ago

    I had this problem before with guys. Some have never seen me, but they say I sound sexy. I never change my voice. When they see me they just looking at my body. I found out the guys that look at the outside is waiting sex. They don't care how you feel. All I have to say is that you will find that guy who will like you for you and care about you inside and out.

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  • Imago
    13 years ago

    Just wait it out. People will get more mature as they get older, and then they'll appreciate more than just your body.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Thank you for the comments it helped me out!

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    13 years ago

    Danger! Approaching the friend zone, casual conversation stop is up next after that its a straight shot to the friend zone. bring your hardhats with you because we're still under construction. We will be picking up people from the FZ to make a last stop at internet dating

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    Stop sexting them.
    No sorry that was harsh. Seriously, assuming you aren't the one initiating lust-provoking texts, just don't except that kind of communication. If they don't want to have a normal conversation with you then they don't want to get to know you for who you really are.
    It seems like they just assume they can go there with you--and that is very disrespectful.

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