Long-term boyfriend won't make out with/pleasure me?

If you are tired of him driving straight into the garage try putting a few obstacles on the driveway.

It takes two to make it more fun, you need to get things going. He may just be a bit shy or inexperienced. Bear in mind that he doesn't have the same equiptment as you and therefore might just not know what to do.

Give him a chance (and a few lessons) before you give him the boot!

If you don't love him train him up anyway, some other woman will be grateful one day!

Some people just may not like kissing.. talk to him about it. Tell him about foreplay. Give him a blow job before you two go at it then tell him to finger you or give you face before, just to see how it goes. As for the kissing.. It does seem weird, but everyone's sexual preference is different. Making love is very important in a long relationship and you have got to know the difference between making love and fucking. There is a huge difference!

That is not normal. Something is seriously wrong. Sex is more than putting your penis in a vagina. It's about being tender and caring. About the closeness and connection you feel as you expose the most private parts of yourself. If you are allowing yourself to be in a loveless relationship you really need to consider the long term consequences of your actions. Will he be there for you when you need him? It seems like he is just masturbating and using your vagina instead of his hand. There is so much better out there. I can't believe you have tolerated this for 14 months. Do yourself a favor and end this now.

he's a douche bag.. get a real man

I don't think he knows how to hold a relationship properly.

Check your breath. Seriously. I doubt he is gay, but amazing how many dudes I know who complain about their girl's breath and they are afraid to mention it. I am not saying you are not brushing or something like that; sometimes digestive problems can cause it.

Maybe he doesn't even know how to or thinks you don't want to. You might need to lead this guy. Usually the first two years are passionate bliss and then you guys start to "settle" into eachothers habits. So you either need to "train" him quick, if you're gonna want to keep him or ditch him. Since it's been awhile, you really need to think about it though. When you move on and figure you want him back, his pride may be hurt so much, he won't even give you a second glance. And that has nothing to do with looks.

The fun part is teaching eachother what you guys want from eachother. Set the mood for yourself to take charge, that way you can "show him"...he seems to have NO PROBLEM in wanting to get down to it. Try it before you consider your relationship a failure.

AND men hate to guess...from experience TELLING HIM EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT, get's things done! If he knew, he would've attempted it at least a couple of time before telling you he can't do it.

Aside from your complaints about his lazy lovin, what do you love about him? Maybe you should focus on that for mow. You might find yourself pleasantly surprised.....or immensely disappointed

Ditch him.
Kissing is important.
A kiss is the promise of what's to come. [Alan Shore- yeah- THAT Alan Shore].

Kissing is the way we know if we want to love someone.

I am currently and will always 'just be friends' with someone- that being a major reason. Making out can be as good as sex- the endorphins...

Well if the option to ditch him is there then it kind of implys that you dont love him so if you want some thing diferent then just go for it ditch him and get a new lad but after along period of time it is normal for kissing and sex to slow down i mean i've been with my girl for over 3 years and we hardly make out unless where having sex then we do.

as for the just pull your pants down thing thats wrong he should atleast engage in foreplay tbh love it sounds like hes either a selfish arse hole or he dosnt know what hes doing in bed 2 years is quite a long time to throw away but if you dont mind then go for it theres plenty of lads willing to show a beautifull girl a good time

Is your pussy always clean no smell ? He may be thinking of a guy he is fucking in the ass

It's very likely he's gay. I married a gay guy. Huge mistake. Find a normal guy but don't get sexual with him too soon. Sometimes getting the sexual part going first ruins the rest of it because the whole timing of the relationship is off. Too many people today jump in the sack before they even know each other and then wonder what's wrong with the relationship. Wrong sequence. Sex should follow getting to know and like each other VERY well.