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so me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and i reaaaally like him. only problem is i hardly ever see him and im considering ending it! is it normal to feel like this? Please help, thanks! xxx
I honestly think you're all weak and seriously retarded. A relationship isn't about the sex and touching and getting to look at how hot he is. A real relationship is much deeper than that. It's being there for someone, knowing someone as well as you know yourself. Long distance relationships are hard, but if you want to quit because it's too hard then you don't really love him. You can't just love someone when they're there.
I'm in one and I have never considered leaving him behind. In the long run I believe if we get through this then we can get through anything. And it makes me feel strong that I can deal with it for him. You all should grow up. It can work, if you let it and try.
Seeing as we're not the ones insulting other people, perhaps you should grow up...
Do you really think we should all adhere to your standards or that what you think is necessarily right?
Of course, there were other reasons I left him but I don't particularly believe it bears repeating them here. Also, I'm certainly not shallow or care about appearances, seeing as I hate my own.
And sure, some relationships work out but I wouldn't like to see the statistics for I'm sure there are far more that have failed than succeeded with LDR's.
You cannot "know" a person without meeting them and even then, do you really know someone?
Plenty of people pay the price, sometimes the ultimate price for putting too much trust and naivety into someone they don't know.
Better to be safe then never have the chance to be sorry.
A long distance relationship can be manageable if you find someone local to have sex with.
Ok, maybe that's not always a good idea.
What if you dont want them to leave and they leave because they cant find a job because they are an inmagrent
People do this all the time...Military relationships? you just have to find a way to make it work.
Most of you people should be happy you have not fallen in love with someone in the military! My husband has been gone for 6 months! I have not kissed those lips for 6 months! I talk to him on the Internet for about 30-40 mins 2-3 times a week if I am lucky. My love for him has never been stronger. We love each other very much and would do anything for each other. I have never once questioned if he is worth it. When you have true love, you would wait a lifetime to keep it. Maybe if you question it's worth, there is no question?
Dont do it. I spent 4 years long distance with my now husband. Everyone who's never been in a LDR thinks they don't. If you really trust each other and love each other,you can make it work. It's hard, but worth it in the long run. We are going on 6 years now.
I had a long distance relationship and the guy was great. Except it wasn't enough even with texting and talking on the phone, for a relationship to work, you need to be in the same place as the other person.
I was the same, thinking about ending it and honestly, I was confused at first and I beat myself up pretty bad about it. But the fact I was thinking about ending it, told me that it was what I wanted, deep down.
I won't pretend it didn't hurt because it hurt like hell and I even reconciled with him for a few weeks only to realise it wasn't working again.
All I can say is, listen to yourself and your heart. (corny I know!). Seriously, hun, you can only know what it is you want. Good luck x
You are wise in that you are willing to do what is best for both of you, even if its not necessarily what you want. The alternative is to take it for what it is, and throw out the restrictions. Unless you are actually going to be together soon and continuously, you should down-grade the relationship to non-exclusive, and remain honest with one another. Its bound to end anyway, take it for what it really is.