Long distance???

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I dunno if someone already wrote this or whatever but anyways here it goes...

I am 18 years old and although i have been in relationships on and off I started to join random online sites to meet people and stuff cause I love to talk to people all across the world...and then one day as I was browsing i met this guy...
When i first talked to him it seemed normal enough cause I was like whatever he seems cool and then a couple months later he told me I was all he thought about and I had the same feelings about him and then we talked on the phone and we went on cams and talked all the time and we still do to this day...
But as much as I do care about him I always have my doubts cause I dont know how it is gonna last..I just wanna ask if it is normal to have these thoughts about someone who lives so far away??
Is it normal to wanna fall in love with someone so far away from me?

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Based on 39 votes (33 yes)
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  • JellyTots
    9 years ago

    I met my boyfriend online 6 months ago and we're still together! We live a 2 hours drive apart. I love him so much and we loved each other before we even met. Give it a chance! You won't regret it. I don't. :)

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  • Sweetrose
    12 years ago

    Very normal my boyfriend lives over 6 hours away from me and we've been together 4 years :)

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  • RawRiTzSooie
    14 years ago

    haha this may sound weird but i was playing a game that has other online players and one time i met this guy we started chattin then talkin on the phone then webcamming! durin the summer he actually saved up money to come see me he lives in cali i live in washington state and we stayed with each other for 2 days and 1 night. before he came to see me we started "dating" even though we have nvr seen each other b4. and then we lasted 10 months to realize our futures didnt match up.

    people always told me that he would be cheating on me but only you can know the true person's feelings.

    i think its normal to a certain extent.

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  • j0826
    15 years ago

    i dont like long distance relationships.
    i had one and it didnt last. i fell in love with somebody else. lol

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  • MapleSyrup
    15 years ago

    When you love someone it should not be for their location. Ive had several long distance relations and its very difficult, but as you are 18, if you and this person really do connect then you need to start thinking if you or that person could make the sacrifice of moving for each other. After all thats the only was to truely be together. I suggest meeting each other for real first though, for a week or so perhaps. Im sure you know by now if hes a pedophile or not lol but still be careful. Long distance relations can work, if your up for it.

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  • dynozark
    15 years ago

    I am 15 and I love a girl 4 states away , and I met her two years ago. I can't make big assumptions, but I think it will last long.

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  • BDSMKitten
    15 years ago

    My boyfriend lives 1500 miles away, and we're just fine. You're normal =]

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    • Youwantthis
      14 years ago

      He's cheating on you.

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  • andymac3044
    16 years ago

    how am i suspose to know when you didnt even state your gender?

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    Nothing wrong with that but it might not work out too far away

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  • Angel_Catcher
    16 years ago

    it is totally normal. i've gone through this. depending on what happens in the next few weeks i'll tell you if i found it worth it or not.

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  • FreakyTendency
    16 years ago

    How is that being naive ?

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  • EccentricWeird
    16 years ago

    Yes, it's called being a naiive moron. Now eat your vegetables, we're leaving for church in half an hour.

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    • BirdyMojo
      14 years ago

      First, learn how to spell naive. You called her a moron? You can't even spell naive.

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